Is it normal mum takes her side

Apparently shutting the door when my sister is in her room is rude lmao?
I say well at least I'm not slamming it or raging at herike I used to. Shes like yeah that's what childen do, childish. I say yep you're right it was childish but now I dont do that anymore and I simply close the door yet she says its shutting her out and she doesnt like it lol!!! I say idc about her fucking feelings !!! You know why I do that. Shes like so you're gonna hate your sister forever? I said unless she changes or comes to me. She said hows she gotta change? By not having a brand wanting to ditch the family business? I say how come your not mad at her for ditching the fam business she's only 21 and ditching amd here I am 26 and havent ditched!! Wow
I said what about her best mate Jason?? I spoke to him and he blocked her due to her walking on him. Shes like domt bring him up and dont talk to him as it's her ex friend. I said I will bring him up! He has feelings too and I am on his side. She doesn't want me to bring his name up because I am RIGHT? That's it aye?? Why else turn a blind eye and say nothing in relation to him. In fact she used to adore Jason as a good friend and now she acts fuking indifferent. Doesn't even talk to my sister about any of her wrong doings.
Shes hypocritical, and self absorbed! Mother is a cunt and takes her side!
Sister runs over to her bf place 24/7 like a bitchslave trying to fit into hetronormative society. She went on thurs to Sunday, got up at 6am to then drive 20 mins back home to then go to work at 8am to 5pm. AND THEN run back over to his on Sunday evening to stay the night when she has work again Monday!! She also works in the family business lawns and gardens. It's a physically demanding job, she also gets anxiety at his. She looks malnourished and skinnier yet doesn't dump him or stop over working. Psycho

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  • bigbudchonga

    Do you shut her door or your door? If you shut your door then it's fine; if you shut her door, and she doesn't want it shut, then it's rude. Also there's nothing wrong with trying to fit into "hetronormative society"; not everyone wants to cut off their balls and be called mam.

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    • Yes everything is wrong as shes hypocritical af

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    • Kitchen door

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  • RoseIsabella

    Are you shutting your door, or her door? If her door is open then you shouldn't mess with it because it's her door, but if we're talking about shutting your door then do what you want.

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    • It's a kitchen door lmao

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      • RoseIsabella

        Who's in the kitchen when you're shutting the door?

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        • Mum

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          • RoseIsabella

            I thought you were shutting the door on your sibling?

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  • SkullsNRoses

    She’s ditching the family business yet still works there?

    Your mother sounds like she’s being ridiculous about you wanting privacy from your sister. When she starts screaming at you just don’t engage. Calmly tell her that you’re excercising your right to privacy and end the discussion there.

    I really think you should talk to a therapist about this. I recognise your family issues from your previous posts and I think a therapist could help you make sense of your anger and disappointment regarding your relatives and help you move forward.

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