Is it normal most of my guy friends like me?

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This is so annoying. I've heard a while ago though that guys and girls can't "just be friends." But I see millions of people, who are the opposite sex, friends with each other and would never think there could be a thing between those two. But I've been seeing this guy and every time I let one of my "so-called" good guy friends know about him, they instantly get jealous. I'm like um whats the problem? not like we ever had a thing and like we ever will have a thing. Why can some of my guy friends be happy for me that I am really into this guy? Obviously, they all have a thing for me but its irritating. It's like when we go out, they have a goal to eventually hook up with me. I really wish I can have genuine guy friends. Why guy friends though? cause I get along with them more but apparently its cause they're into me. They don't care about me unless they have a chance to hook up with me. How annoying is that.

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  • Paradiddle
    9 years ago

    This is a hard to touch subject as I personally think there are many variables to this. There is a reality that some may not be aware of. Girls will be visually attractive by nature and even if a guy has a female friend, that friend is still a female and will have those oh so lovely attributes. It'll be all "Hi Paradiddle, how are you!" "I'm doing good"(oh yes its those pants that leave no breathing room again, I'll not say anything though because we're friends). I do think that you've just been unfortunate in your guy friends if they ALL end up wanting to get some action and you are 100% sure and not just speculating.
    As for the relationship talk, I personally wouldn't want to hear about my female friend's guy because that guy isn't me and I have nothing to do with my friend being all affectionate with someone else, its annoying honestly. I've had a few who made it a habit of talking about their guy too much and I eventually let them know that I would rather talk about their day or hobbies than their guy, gotta leave the two worlds separate unless its about a problem.

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  • Tommythecat.
    9 years ago

    "But I see millions of people, who are the opposite sex, friends with each other and would never think there could be a thing between those two"

    No you see a bunch of people pretending such things.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I guess. I never believe what I see but because of that i m the odd ball of the group.

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      • Tommythecat.
        9 years ago

        We all be oddfellows.

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  • seakelp
    9 years ago

    Get better guy friends.

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    • EccentricWeird
      9 years ago

      Seek a non-photosynthetic username!

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  • palepunk
    9 years ago

    They probably think of you as a sister! What big brother wants to watch another guy come in and make his sis go all lovey dovey and shit? Plus, they probably feel very protective of you on top of that.

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    • Fall_leaves
      9 years ago

      This guys right. I don't talk about guys I'm seeing to my close nit group of guy friends. I only talk about my relationships with them if I'm having problems or if I'm unsure how to handle a situation.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      No they literally don't care and dont wanna hear about him. I do have one guy friend tho who is brotherly to me and listen when I have problems. So thankful for that. But for the rest, at least once we've gone out and they tried making a move on me knowing I have someone. Guys really don't care if you're single or taken. They'll pretend to but later the real side comes out. I can't trust going out w them anymore then they call me "boring" just to make me feel bad about my relationship cause theyre jealous. Well shouldn't have hit on me but instead respect and be happy for me and my man.

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  • EccentricWeird
    9 years ago

    I'm sorry, all I got from this post was:

    "Blah blah blah, I'm really sexy and popular, blah blah, fuck my life, blah blah, men are stupid penises."

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    9 years ago

    Men do not want to be your friends. We like to eat red meat, drive fast cars, and put our wieners in vaginas. So if you have a vagina we want it in you.

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