Is it normal little kids offend me with some of the things they say?

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It's obvious that children are straight up and more honest about their thoughts than adults. Sometimes I really hate being around kids because they can say hurtful things eg "You're fat", "Your hair looks funny"
"Your eyes look weird".
The latter one was said to me today when I took my glasses off as she wanted to guess my age. I had no make up on either & because I'm blonde, i have blonde eye lashes that make my blue eyes look wishy washy :/ is it normal trivial things kids say , hurt me?

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  • PlebolaVirus
    8 years ago

    I strongly respect honesty. I am not afraid to be brutally honest with my thoughts whenever I state them. If you're a whiny little crybaby and get offended at the truth, then that's your problem, not mine. If someone asks me if they are fat, and they are, I will tell them they look like a beached whale instead of lying my ass off.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I respect honesty too, never said I didn't. I also can take comments as such mentioned above & I have had far worse. Its just that it hurts and I was originally asking if its normal to be offended by what kids say! I ain't no cry baby and I aint gonna cry about it

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        8 years ago

        Never said it was your problem either .

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    If your self worth can be shattered by the words of a child, you certainly can't blame the child. It's a hard world out there and you need to toughen up to survive. If you like what you see in the mirror, then fuck em all. If you don't, then change it.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Just enjoy their honesty and be honest back to them and treasure contact with small humans who haven't yet learned to censor what they say. You could always try saying honest but nice things back to them so they learn honesty doesn't always have to be about negative things.

    If you can't do that, stay away from kids and just hang around with ordinary dishonest grownups

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    8 years ago

    It's not really normal. They're naive little humans who haven't learned some of what is to know about the world. I have a gap in my teeth and my hair frizzes out sometimes. They might point it out, but I just laugh it off. This one time one went up to me and was all "WOW! You used to be really fat! Where did the rest of you go?!" I laughed my ass off. XD

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  • Thorolf
    8 years ago

    Kids can be annoying. You'll have to get used to it or not be around them.

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