Is it normal it turns my boyfriend on by punching and hitting me

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He likes to see me take pain as it's slutty to him and it really turns him on but it gets really violent where I now am quite scared of him, even though he isn't violent to me outside of the bedroom. Examples would be punching my head, face, back, ass, legs and slapping and biting my face and ears, and strangling me. I am left bruised all over but it doesn't feel in a good way. Or am I just being a pussy in the bedroom? Need an outsiders opinion so please be as honest as possible
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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    No your boyfriend is an abusive dick and has some serious problems. Leave him right now before it escalates. Its normal to be rough in the bed room but generally beating the fuck out of people would not be under that list. If he is beating you outside the bedroom he just enjoys being abusive. Some men are dicks. You are not a pussy hes a fuck! A man should respect his girl. He probobly has anger and control issues. You should not be dealing with this. They have hotlines for this type of thing.

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    • maryjanexoxo
      10 years ago

      Thanks so much xx

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      • RomeoDeMontague
        10 years ago

        Are you the OP? Either way you are welcome.

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        • maryjanexoxo
          10 years ago

          Not sure what OP means but I am the creator or the question x Thanks you're very kind x

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          • RomeoDeMontague
            10 years ago

            OP stands for Anonymous poster and glad to help. Dont let men mistreat you. Also generally punching is not something that is included in S&M.

            There is choking, restraints, Humiliation, collars(sometimes) whipping,biting and sometimes scaring and burning but things like what you described are just very obviously abuse. Also if someone wants an S&M relationship they should really discuss it with you first. Its also not done in the way you described. It honestly sounds like he just wants to hurt you.

            Some people are not comfortable with certien things and that needs to be respected. When your partner does not enjoy the treatment it becomes abuse as well. He sounds like he is just being a dick for the sake of being a dick and he knows you wont do anything to stop it.

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    The fetish he has is normal, but for that kind of fetish before you begin you need to have clear boundaries. How hard and where he can hurt you, and a safe word for if he's going too far. If you're actually feeling scared of him that means that you don't trust him or his judgement of when to stop. It's a sign that you should get out now, or at least stop all violence in the bedroom.

    It's okay to do stuff like this purely for your partners sake, but he needs to know how far is too far and it shouldn't be EVERY time you have sex.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    No...if you're not into that, he needs to knock it off, but I think you actually know that.

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  • maryjanexoxo
    10 years ago

    Thanks for your comments guys

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    this was so written by some sick fuck dude.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    It's only normal if you like it.

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