Is it normal insecure and self hating girls are better in bed?

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Girl I am dating is crazy she let me piss in her butt and wore a collar that I bought to try. Only been 3 months can you believe it my ex of 2 years didnt even like to swallow my cum but this girl said yes to so much. I know girl insecure about herself try harder to please a guy but that was overweight girls this girl is a 9/10 in body. She said yes to everything so far but not like she is nympho she says no sometimes but it is like she is not sure or half in the mood so I keep going and she gives in. Looks like she got big issues or something she covers her naked body a lot and when I asked her what she liked in sex she says I am not comfortable talking about that stuff but she is not a virgin. I do not think I will stay with her too long but are insecure girls really always better in bed?

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Based on 49 votes (25 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago | pl

    You sound like a predatory and selfish opportunist.
    :-(

    There are men who act like that too, and insecure, self hating people with low self esteem don't deserve to be taken advantage of and treated like crap. The real human garbage are people who take advantage of other vulnerable people for their own pleasure by using them and throwing them away.

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    • PinkHairedFreak
      8 years ago | pl

      I've been down that road once. I've been pressured and blackmailed into sex and doing things I didn't want to do. I've been grabbed and groped in the middle of a crowded place after I said no. I've been treated like a fuck toy. I've been physically restrained from leaving those situations since he was twice my size.

      It is not pretty, and OP needs to know that what he has done to this girl will probably scar her for the rest of her life or at least the next ten years. I ran into "the bad ex" a few days ago, and I still couldn't look anywhere but down at the floor, and it has been three years since everything happened. I hope OP finds his conscious again because it seems to be missing.

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        Amen to that, girl! Your cat is beautiful! I just to say that because my little Siamese Dream helps me get through this life like a little angel sent from Heaven.

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        • PinkHairedFreak
          8 years ago

          Thank you! He's got some Maine coon blood in him, and I really love the fluffiness. He makes my days just a little bit better. :3

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          • RoseIsabella
            8 years ago

            I can certainly see the Maine Coon in him. Does he like to go outside or ask to go outside a lot?

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            • PinkHairedFreak
              8 years ago

              He's an indoor cat, but he does seem fascinated by the outside. He has made an escape attempt or two. When I first got him, I tried to take him for walks, but he refused to cooperate, so he became an exclusively indoor cat.

              He also really likes water. He's fascinated when I turn on the sink or shower. He's also very talkative and meows a lot.

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      • Lord_Flatulitis
        8 years ago

        Just because you couldn't stand up for yourself doesn't mean he should have done it for you. It sounds like what he did was wrong but you are equally at fault for allowing it.

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        • PinkHairedFreak
          8 years ago

          So saying no isn't enough? What else should I have done? I couldn't even leave when a situation got nasty, and believe me, I tried. He was twice my size and not afraid to use force to get what he wanted.

          Have you ever had someone squeeze your wrists until you stop struggling, pinning you against the wall because they're convinced you "like it rough?" Someone that grabs your chest and squeezes until you cry out in pain while the people around you just stare and not even do anything? Someone that begs and begs while physically restraining you until you eventually stop saying no just to get it over with?

          He was my first real boyfriend, so I didn't have any experience with what was normal, and I didn't leave him immediately like I should have. I didn't like it, but I thought that was just how things were, and I had feelings for him too. I did finally break up with him, but it took awhile to work up the courage after he had so thoroughly beaten (not literally, but you know what I mean) me down.

          After a few more SOs I finally realized that the whole experience wasn't normal at all. It was abusive and he was taking advantage of my inexperience and low self esteem. The "Oh, she lets me do anything!" is only because she's afraid of what he'll do if she doesn't.

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          • Lord_Flatulitis
            8 years ago

            I'm new here, apologies for any insults.

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            • PinkHairedFreak
              8 years ago

              I'm new here too. It's cool.

              I just wanted to share my own experience. It's not like I mull over it every day anymore, but talking about it helps. It is easier with a SO to lean on and remind me that not all people are like that, but right now I'm kind of lacking in that department.

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            • RoseIsabella
              8 years ago

              That's more like it, Brah! Right on.

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        • RoseIsabella
          8 years ago

          Now, you ought not to speak of that which you know nothing. I love your name, dude, but it's obvious from your comment you don't know much about all of this. I'm rather disappointed.
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    • Arm0se
      8 years ago

      Thanks for say something :/

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        Certainly.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Excuse me how am I selfish? I did not make her this way. At least I tell her we are casual from the start some guys would treat her worse.

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        If you know a person is vulnerable and you use that to your advantage you're acting in a selfish and predatory manner. Sure you're honest and up front, sure there are guys who would treat her much worse, but it doesn't excuse you, dude. It's not cool to take advantage of anyone, especially the weak and vulnerable.

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  • NathanScot
    8 years ago

    I usualy dont comment twice in the same post but i'l indulge you for today.
    First dont get ur panties in a bunch,OP found that girl that way,he's not the one that made her that way.Its not his job to 'fix' her either.Frankly if u do not have the mental strength to deal with todays fucked up world then sorry for you ur going to get punched in the balls.This world is not for the weak,i've got problems up to my neck to worry about but that doesnt mean i now walk around crying/lamenting to everyone how life sucks.No,i handle my shit. OP has done and is doing his best for the girl,i cant blame him,hell i wouldnt mind a girl like that too.If she decides to hanlde her shit and wisens up then good for her but till then OP can continue as he was.Cher'

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  • NathanScot
    8 years ago

    The more insecure they are the more they are willing to do in bed mate.Besides,they are more fun.U have a good deal bro,enjoy...literaly hehe.And make sure u keep bringing up her insecurities so that she's always in that state.Cher'

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    • RoseIsabella
      8 years ago

      How would you like it if someone treated you like that?

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