Is it normal in an interracial relationship to find family traditions barring?

I have known my boyfriend for 5 years but we were just friends back then.I always had a crush on him, surprisingly he felt the same way all these years. We have been dating for about 8 months now and I love him a lot. The thing is I am Indian and he is White, I never fell for him because of his race no, I did because of the immense feelings I felt when I first met him. Never liked any guy since. My family on the other hand won't let me see him often until I finish school or college if you will. I am almost done but right now I am bored and really want to change my major and environment because I have gotten the sudden feeling of I do not want to do this for the rest of my life. Staring at a computer screen, since its graphic design. I LOVE art don't get me wrong I find it a lot more fun to learn of the great masters and study history. Now my family is a bit racist but I am trying to work it out. My family has tried to change my mind and make me break up with him a lot except for my mother, she understands me, yet what they all want is for me to finish school. I am 23 years old.

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  • Ono

    You're 23. It's not up to your family to decide how often you see someone.

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    • Meownessez

      I agree but my family....they are a pain sometimes. I live under their house so I live under their rules as impertinent and unfair as they may be I still am not living on my own and dependent on them for transportation and money...

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      • Ono

        Fair enough. You're not in a position to change that yet, but you deserve better than the way your family is treating you.

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        • Meownessez

          i agree thank you =)

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  • Nidhöggr

    The members of your family who want you two to seperate obviously want to limit your freedom. They may say it's for your own good, but as long as they don't explain why, it's just rubbishy imperiousness.

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    • Meownessez

      thank you =)

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