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My boyfriend doesn't want me to watch porn any more. I can't even read erotica. He says that he is all I should need. But we live in different states and rarely see each other. And I'm bi so he doesn't satisfy all my needs. Is this normal? What should I do? I miss porn and havn't masturbated without it for years.
No that's not right he can't tell you not to watch porn because he should be " you need" he can't possibly be all you need if he is in a different state. Your boyfriend is to insecure and needs to be token down a notch on the control problems. I hope I helped and hope you work things out bye and peace ✌
I'm guessing you don't give a crap as to whether he beats off to other naked women or not?
Compatibility check; negative.
Personally I think no porn in a relationship is good, yet I'm not forcing anyone to be my partner at gun point, so let the wankers wank :)
Wow. Good thing this guy showed his colors BEFORE you married him. This ain't a boy friend, it's someone who thinks he is your lord and master; your owner.
Chuck this one back and go fishing for a better one. This one stinks.
find someone local, and more open minded and less insecure, who knows. you will find a guy who can be okay with you being bi and needing a woman as well. honestly if i was you and was bisexual i'd find a tomboy woman who has both the feminine touch yet masculine like personality. she can have a strap on. just saying, do what you want, just be happy, if you are unhappy in this relationship, you deserve the chance to be happy. you both really are not getting anything out of this, and he seems controlling. whatever choice you make, just remember its not being selfish to think about your own happiness in life. don't each and every one of us have our own amount of drama enough? be happy with something in life, something you can decide, can control. best wishes to you, may you open doors that lead you to happiness and finding someone who will love you for you and not be so insecure or controlling.
Not normal. A person is not even worth the effort if they're THAT insecure that they feel like they have to control what their girlfriend or boyfriend does in their spare time.
this probably means he's watching porn behind your back, lol. and he feels insecure about it so he doesn't want you to do it too. hypocrisy at its finest.
Porn is BAD! I must baptize you in holy water. Will you ever find the light and see the way. You must get yourself on the right path before it is too late. Come my child. Follow me and I will show you the way.
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You're allowed to put up with that level of control if you choose to, but I wouldn't personally. Just curious, most people seemed to have assumed you're female, but you don't say if you are male or female. Makes no difference to my response, but I am just wondering.
I talked to him about it and he says I can watch porn with women in but not men. Which is fine because I never watched porn to see men. And I can read sexy stories too
Try getting him to think of it this way without actually saying it: porn isn't cheating, cheating is cheating. He should be grateful that you have stayed loyal only to him during the relationship.