Is it normal im trying to help my widowed stepdad find someone

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my mom died almost three years ago, it was a really bad death too.They were married 35 years. He hasn't got over her passing away and cries every day and every other time she's mentioned.He was always there for her and me and is the best.He is 85 and in very good health. He looked so sad at Christmas and seems so lost. I wanna find him someone to make him feel good about himself.He deserves that. Are there any good dating sights for older classy men. He is very shy and easily embarrassed southern gentlemen I don't want to freak him out.

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  • stopandthink
    9 years ago

    Eh, if I were widowed I would respect my dead love in not getting with someone else. Just my opinion. Ask yourself how your mother would feel.

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  • runningwithscissors
    9 years ago

    That's so sweet.
    www.ourtime.com
    www.seniorpeoplemeet.com
    Best of luck.

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  • Gooddaddy
    1 year ago

    Wow. What a good thoughtful, respecting and caring individual you have been raised to be. I hope it all works out well for you and stepdad. Everyone deserves to be happy

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  • babara7246
    9 years ago

    He sounds wonderful and lord only knows they are few and far between. I know I would love to meet him and believe me someone will be lucky to meet him and especially you. You are a wonderful kind caring person to care for him and feel his sadness and loneliness. He is apparently a good man to have you feel this way towards him. He is so lucky to have you. I don't think your mom would want him lonely and sad do you?

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  • claireshelby
    9 years ago

    forget the wackos on the dating sites. have him go to the mall , there are some nice single mature people there. I am an older woman that is what I did. Just watch out for nasty golddiggers.I missed my husband terribly but was lonely to have someone to talk to if that makes any sense at all.

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