Is it normal im thinking about it this much?

50% Normal
18 Comments

So today my girlfriend is gone for 4 days camping with like 27 girls & 3 men (responsible), here's some details, we had a big fight about this when she told me about it, she was very excited so she said to the responsible she's going (when I didn't say I'm okay with it, I just told her we will talk about it), when we talked she told me that she confirmed that she's going behind me back! that made me really upset and that's why we fought, than she said like she said that only to trick the responsible into getting me with her (I didn't explain it very well my English is bad) but she meant it, after that I wanted to know every detail before she goes and I said I don't want lies, everything needs to be clear! she said she's going with only girls! and just one man, this morning before she's gone, I called her, she said there's 3 guys, I'm not mad about the guy thing, but I got fears that she wasn't honest with me, I don't know!! what do you think?

Voting Results
50% Normal
Based on 12 votes (6 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 18 )
  • cinderellasundergarments
    7 years ago

    You need to grow the fuck up.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    2
    2
      -
    • startliving
      7 years ago

      lol okay :D thanks

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    When people like you try and control their partners, it usually results in the other person lying to them for the sake of peace and eventually doing exactly what they're being suspected of doing.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
      -
    • Drunkuncle
      6 years ago

      That's exactly what happened with my ex. I missed out on a lot of things because it wasn't worth the fight

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
    • startliving
      7 years ago

      im not trying to control lol , it's the first time kinda had some fears but know i'm okay she's texting me the whole day , and she's having fun , im dealing with it , just re -read my question , is it threatening if she lied on purpose ! that's the question and only one answer it here and it was realy helpful

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • herpesfreesince93
    7 years ago

    Am I missing something here? WHY does she need YOUR permission? Grow the fuck up Bilbo Baggins

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
      -
    • startliving
      7 years ago

      dude lol why do you see it as a permission, she asked me when i was so busy i said we will talk about it to know more details i'll never forbid her from living

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • Angelandme
    7 years ago

    Any girl would lie to go camping with their chick friends about any guys being there if her boyfriend was insecure. Insecurity isn't cool bruh. Feel your worth and don't over think it, if the day she cheats then it'll come for now enjoy what you have, but let her know just once, if she cheats, it's over. Then be carefree and never talk of it again.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
      -
    • startliving
      7 years ago

      yea i made it clear once, thanks i needed this

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • peterrabbyt69
    7 years ago

    She's probably blowing one of those guys right now while you are pulling your prick, you loser. Get a boyfriend and you'll be better off.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • rayb12
    7 years ago

    Relax mate love yourself and love her try to put yourself in her shoes. I know this wasn't the point of your question but you would like to be able to leave without checking it by her. I understand there are cultural differences but people are people. Fear is almost always irrational

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Gr00ve
    7 years ago

    Lol she wants to breed.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Satan'sPinealGland
    7 years ago

    She's going to have sex with those guys and when you want it, she'll be too tired.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • startliving
      7 years ago

      not in our country lol it's haram hahah .

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • crygypsy
    7 years ago

    STOP BEING A CONTROL FREAK. You will lose her man. I had a bf who acted like you once. Dumped his ass. He wouldn't ever let me hang out with my friends. He was too clingy and insecure. HUGE turn off.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • startliving
      7 years ago

      thanks for sharing you experience ^^

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • popperclub
    7 years ago

    She lies to you because she like to go with their friend. Don't refuse her if she likes to ask tour permission. If you don't like her opinion just tell how you feel...positively

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • startliving
      7 years ago

      Thanks

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0