Is it normal if your friend freak out, because you can't go out with her?

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Is it normal if your friend call you on the phone, and ask you if you can walk 3 km to her house (immediatly and then go on a bus with her so she has something to do, so she isn't alone in town for 1 hour for her next bus home.
But I sad I meet my friends in 15 minutes (they drove a car for 2 hours to see me) so I can't go with her.
She freaked out and decline my call and don't wanna talk to me anymore. This girl is 19 years old, almost 20.
I think I know the answer (I really hope my social behavior is not so weird), so i want to show her this thread.)

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Based on 35 votes (6 yes)
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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    She sounds clingy. She should understand that you are free to have plans with others too.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I have known a few people like this. It does not annoy me that much for some reason. I usually like doing things for people until I end up cuming in my pants and having to awkwardly walk home.

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    • (s)aint
      10 years ago

      Hahahahhahahah! I want to adopt you.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Do all Swedish girls have round butts?

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        • (s)aint
          10 years ago

          Some have too round xD

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    She sounds like a needy, codependent waste of time. Forget her sorry ass.

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  • iEatZombies_
    10 years ago

    Is this usual behavior for her? If it's not, then I would say she had a panic attack, which aren't worth ruining your friendship over. She simply got nervous in an awkward social situation and over-reacted. She's going to have to learn to live with this, though. Yes, it is creepy to take a bus as a 19 year old girl alone, but it's not necessarily unsafe. Just sit up front by the driver and listen to headphones. Basically, find your small reassurances in an awkward social situation and ride the rest out. *Through teeth* And try not to stare at the old guy with a crazy eye and beard who's staring at you. Pretend you don't notice.

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    • iEatZombies_
      10 years ago

      For the record, I was also scared when I was 19 and had to take the bus and be alone for a while. It is scary. Guys who are old enough to be your dad blatantly hit on you, people gawk at you, ask you if you want drugs, if you 'party' aka get high and fuck 40 year olds, you get harassed, sometimes the creeps follow you off the bus 'Oh, not my stop, just wanted to hang.' That's scary for anyone, let a 19 year old girl. Not that anyone can solve those problems for her.. Unfortunately, she's going to have to learn that she's an adult now and she's her own responsibility. Nobody is going to help her, and they aren't obligated to. It's a rude and cruel awakening.

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      • iEatZombies_
        10 years ago

        For others on here, she isn't a control freak, she's a scared kid.

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        • jank
          10 years ago

          I undestand some countries are cruel and dangerous, but around here the most dangeroues thing around is a dog who once bite a girl. I live in Europe in a small country in a small city where we almost don't know what is rape. I mean bad things happen here, is not that we are imune to that sort of things, but living here is kinda safe. Her problem is that she lives in a place where arent many people, so she isn't sociolaze as you think. She is like a cave girl, she doesn't really know what is "allowed" to do. She lose every friend in a year or so, but I stick with her because I know it's her fault, but she doesn't know that, and i'm not really bothered by that. Whenewer something like that happened, she gets angry on me, like when I can't do something for her she droop a phone or sth. like that and say to me that we are over, like don't call me any more and that shit. But in a few days she always call me and act normal.
          In a September she goes in school in our capital city, where she will be sorounded with many people and I'm keep telling her that she won't find many friends if that's continue. I study in our capital city in work days and at weekends I get home so I think I know what I'm talking about, but I get your point, in some places I would be scary too, if I had to go out alone.

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  • dickwashington
    10 years ago

    first off im american so i dont know how far 3 km is but i probly wouldnt do that unless i was getting some pussy out of it or trying to get some thats just me though

    unless of course u told her ahead of time u would do it then i could understand her getting upset

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    • jank
      10 years ago

      She called me like I should get in a second so I could catch I bus, I told her my friends are here and she sad they can wait.

      Those 3 km = 1.86 miles but really a big hill. Lets say that if I would go on this rode with bike, when I would come back if I wouldn' t brake all the road I wouldn't make it alive if you know what I mean:)

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      • dickwashington
        10 years ago

        hill or no hill i wouldnt have done it in fact i would be upset at the fact that she expected u then gets angry at you i would wait a couple weeks before you try talking to her again assumeing your friendship with her is worth keeping

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    • dirtybirdy
      10 years ago

      Well Dick, I'm also American and can tell you that a km is a little over half a mile.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Birds don't understand measurements.

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  • Cherrybombpieee
    10 years ago

    To me its normal im very sensitive in friendships

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  • Foamy'sACoolSquirrel
    10 years ago

    OH NO! It's the Overly Attached Girlfriend (she's a girl and she's your friend)! AAAAAAAAHHHHH! RUN FOR YOUR LIVES!

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  • Fall_leaves
    10 years ago

    not normal, but is it normal I want to hump an inanimate object right now? no? didn't think so..

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