Is it normal if were not having sex and were fine with it?
So I recently expressed my feelings to the guy I've been seeing about a lot of things on my mind. We've been having comittment issues and pretty much laid down everything about where we stand. But before everything, I was fine having sex with him even if we weren't exclusive. It was natural, it was because we wanted to. Then I just started reading these articles and one of them really hit me. It pretty much just said how why he should commit when he is getting everything out of it already. I've read that statement before but idk why this one finally hit me. And what really hit the most was how I'm letting him have me when he's not even my bf. I don't want to ruin what we have and our sex intimacy because it is really passionate. But I kind of wanted to see where it would go if I stopped. And so we did, and it doesn't feel like there's a differenc .
We still cuddle, maybe tease a little, but it doesn't feel like we NEED to have sex. Everything else has stayed the same. Of course I miss it and sometimes fantasize about us having sex but if I don't think about it, its fine. He took it fine too like "okay we don't have to have sex." Is this normal or is this okay? Does this mean anything about what we have like maybe t isnt special after all or it is a good thing we dont need it especially for him because that just means he wasn't just using me for sex? Hes not the player type who needs to have a girl and hes made it clear he has me so he doesnt feel like he needs to talk to anyone else. Sex is a big part of having a good relation and its not like our sex sucked, it's more of we don't need to do it like I thought we did since we would do it a few times a day. I guess well wait until we lose it and can't resist anymore or until we make it official.