Is it normal if we have amazing sex and act like nothings ever happened after?

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My partner and I are like lovers and friends but more lovers. So in other words, we are loyal to each other even tho we can totally just get with anyone we want to. But I guess you can say were just getting to kno each other right now but at the same time having amazing, intimate sex. Its been like three months weve been doing this. For like the last month, we have gotten closer. Aside from being extremely intimate, weve gone out, weve cooked together, weve watched movies, and just getting to know each other really well. It was almost scary cause I was like wow whats gonna happen next? a relationship? As much as I would love to, I can't right now cause I just got out of one and I want to focus on me. So I understand if we take it all slow but not like were strangers! It is so ridiculous how he still doesn't kiss me hi or kiss me goodbye without us having sex or without me making the move. Like hello? weve done so much together not just sex and you still act like we just met. Like grow balls to make a move or leave me alone if you are not as into me as I am to you or like you say you are. I will be hurt if he is just using me for sex after everything he has told me and done for me but I'll be even more pissed. Its either he doesn't like me as much OR he doesn't know how to make the move and hes awkward and shy. Either way, I'm done. It was okay if he was shy in the beginning and everything was awkward but after everything weve done, he can't be so shy anymore like wth! I can't believe we are still in the same situation as were like two months ago after everything. He asked me to go out the other night and it was the first night we saw each other after having the best sex so far and I was like I doubt its gonna be awkward. Who makes the only move in the night? Me. I kissed him hi and he just stood there not even a little lean in. And when he was leaving I said fuck tat I am not making a move lets see what he does. And he just gives me this tight hug I was like wow bye. I don't wanna end it because I like him so much but it really sucks being with someone who doesn't wanna be with you and you look kind of desperate. I don't know what to do or how to end it but I kno I am on the verge of closing it out cause thats just ridiculous.

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  • charli.m
    10 years ago

    So...you're pissed off because he wants a relationship and you don't, but he won't ask you to be in a relationship and you have sex but he won't hug you because he's too shy and you're going to leave him because he doesn't do anything?

    What...did...I...just...read?

    I suggest you rethink and try to make some sense.

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    • Couman
      10 years ago

      Yes. And also use paragraphs.

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      • charli.m
        10 years ago

        I...I can't believe this got through :/

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    It sounds like you are pretty confused, or at least emotionally charged. You can't have an entire argument based on pathos, you need some logos, which is something this post severely lacks.

    You don't want a relationship and want to focus on you. And you also want him to focus on you? You don't want a relationship but you want him to be all romantic, kiss you hello, all that romantic stuff, but not have a relationship? It appears as if you and your friend are not on the same page.

    Try setting emotion aside and logically looking at what you are saying. It does not make sense. Sometimes you cannot get everything that you want. You cannot have a fuckbuddy/boyfriend/not boyfriend/boy toy. This behavior is unfair to him, and almost selfish of you.

    Pleeeaaase edit the words "like" and "wth" and "tat" and every out of your next post. It makes you sound like an annoying teenager. People annoyed by you are not likely to give you good advice.

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  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago

    PARAGRAPGHS!!!

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  • Sumi
    10 years ago

    So you don't want a boyfriend but somehow feel you should be treated like a girlfriend... right. Maybe you should convey what the relationship is so he can treat you knowing his role. Kiss hello is not reserved for fuck buddies.

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