Is it normal if it bothers me when guys think im into them?

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I can become a real b*tch when guys think there's a possible chance of getting with me. Its even worse when they think I'm into them. Recently, my friend and I were messaging then me and my big mouth said something that perhaps got twisted into something else for him. I was trying to compliment him but he went ahead and gave me his number and since, hes been contacting more often and it just bothers me how he thinks we're "talking" now. I wish I can just tell him no Im not into you so stop but hes a cool friend of mine and wouldn't want to be rude. So for now Im just not replying as often to him but I think he still thinks theres some sort of thing going on and I just dont know how to tell him. I feel like in order to prevent our friendship from disappearing due to me being a b*tch about not having feelings for him like that, I have to wait for him to ask if I do or if we're a thing then Ill be able to tell him the truth and say no I never had feelings for you like that. Im just hoping hell ask me any time soon. I'm getting annoyed but most of all, Im annoyed at myself for complimenting him that way. Its kind of my own fault.

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  • I_win
    7 years ago

    You sound like a terrible person, where did you get this sense of entitlement from? You become a real bitch when guys think there's a chance of getting with you? Are you actually serious? What do you want guys to do, never talk to you ever? Good luck to any guy that bothers with you.

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    • charli.m
      7 years ago

      This from you?

      Good lord.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Terrible person? just cause of the word "bitch" huh? How about don't jump to conclusions too fast just cause of one word that has a bad connotation. Seriously I read my post again and nothing about it sounds like I'm a "terrible person" lol only the word "bitch" stands out. Maybe have more of an open mind before letting something so small like a word define your whole perception of something.

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  • Cedric_Diggory
    7 years ago

    I can relate to this. Being a very attractive person myself, I get flirted with by women on a daily basis. It's so bloody annoying! It's even worse when you are a genuinely nice person and, somehow, they always seem to twist it up in their crazy brains that I am flirting with them if I just say something nice to them.
    To make it worse, it's part of my job to be nice too. If I didn't need a job I would probably never leave my house. I'll just stay in my house forever and watch We Bare Bears. I am so fucking tired of women thinking I am interested. Why can't I just be left alone?!
    I know I sound conceited and sorry for taking over your post with my rant. This has just been frothing too long.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Lol it's okay I'm glad you understand where I'm coming from, especially as a guy. People are just crazy and jump to conclusions really fast then if you tell them the truth, its not what they want to hear so they get all butthurt and make you look like the bad person. It's like I didn't do anything! I just dont want to lead you on...

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  • charli.m
    7 years ago

    You don't have to be a bitch. All you have to do is state that you're flattered but you just aren't interested.

    Of course, then you get all the dribbling morons whining about "friendzoned" and what not...but quite frankly, who would make friends with such people in the first place?

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  • arkbot
    7 years ago

    stuck up bitch

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  • Ummitsme
    7 years ago

    You need to communicate better. Simply say you want to keep it casual and just be friends. Shouldn't get all up in arms if a guy tries to take it to another level, simply communicate your prefence

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      I wish it was that simple but I do directly tell them where I stand but guys get all cocky and think they can still pursue me so they don't listen in the end. Telling them its not going anywhere romantically won't stop them because, well from my experience, they're so cocky thinking they will get somewhere with me no matter what. It gets on my nerves like crazy. I normally cut them out of my life completely when they don't listen (they sound like kids) but when its someone who I dont mind being friends with and like to hang out with them, thats when it gets irritating because I wanna be friends with them yet they're taking advantage of us spending time together to get to me in a romantic way.

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      • Ummitsme
        7 years ago

        Well idk what else to say other than be a bitch to them when they get all cocky and don't listen when you tell them you're not interested in anything more than friendship. Not many straight guys will want to be friend zoned by a girl they just want to hook up with so its that or nothing most of the time unfortunately.

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  • Sharko22
    7 years ago

    Well yeh i kinda get you i'm male but....i get you cuz if you think about it him imagining having sex with you bother you i get you

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  • CreamPuffs
    7 years ago

    Then correct them. You don't have to be a bitch about it.

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  • bob7
    7 years ago

    That attitude tho

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      attitude? Let me guess just cause of the word "bitch?" lol damn people are so easy these days and jump to conclusions

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      • bob7
        7 years ago

        Yea it is a bitchy attitude to think that noone is allowed to talk to you because you're the prettiest girl in the world

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  • felixy
    7 years ago

    Woman who are bitches are really just childish, and respond well to being treated as children. It will make a guy more attractive in their eyes if he talks down to them.

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    • charli.m
      7 years ago

      Really? Well...you consider me a bitch and talk down to me...and I don't find you remotely attractive.

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      • felixy
        7 years ago

        Talking down to people, knocking them down a peg, putting them in their place, not putting up with bs—in real life, these are signs of confidence and value that bitchy women will pick up on.

        But online where you can say anything anonymously and trolls are abundant, this doesn't apply.

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        • charli.m
          7 years ago

          Sure thing, gypsy.

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