Is it normal if im tired of being attractive?

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I don't care if you think I;m being conceited because I know the truth and the truth is Im not. So I am just really tired of everyone bringing up the fact that I'm pretty or good looking like okay I get it what about my personality? Its funny because coincidentally I came across this quote today where it said "Im glad Im ugly because I know people like me for my personality" I couldn't believe how perfect timing that was. Right now I think thats true...who knows if people really like you for you or for your looks, that is if you're someone attractive. So I just wanna dress down or look "ugly" and see what its like because shockingly, it sucks being attractive sometimes. No one will take you seriously or they do but its only because you're good looking. I find it annoying that now when someone compliments me on my looks I dont even say thank you, I just keep moving because I don't care anymore. It almost feels as if I'm living a lie. For ex today my friend said, "they didn't let me in but theyll prob let you in cause youre pretty and all" I completely ignored that and just continued with the conversation because thats the stuff that is getting on my nerves right now. Whats worse is that even when I dont feel attractive and didnt put effort in looking civilized, I'm still getting hit on or complimented. Overall, I just want people to like me for me not for my looks because in all honesty I have a cool personality, I'm so down to earth, I'm funny, Im goofy, Im weird hence why Im on here, and etc. I wish I could see myself from someone else's point of view and see if Im attractive both in looks and personality and not just looks then I'll have a peace of mind.

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  • dvnkng
    7 years ago

    Get fat and see who sticks around.

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  • sandnigga
    7 years ago

    Its because most people I believe are friends with other people, not because of their looks.

    Most people I believe are friends because they get along, whether thats because of looks, personality, or morales.

    Mostly personality and morales.

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  • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
    7 years ago

    Being attractive is exhausting! I get hit on by brain dead himbos who are only good for one thing. For this reason I have a mirrored headboard on my bed. Whatever his name is underneath me can enjoy the show while I just love watching myself get off! I'm so hot it doesn't take long! When he complains and says "hey I haven't cum yet" I say those three little words all men love to hear "maybe next time!" Then I can keep looking for my ideal sexy geek man to watch B grade Asian action movies, red dwarf and discuss 42

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    • Tempest-au
      7 years ago

      Got to love a woman who appreciates good science fiction. Mind if I take a DNA sample?

      Just need a dash of Monty Python appreciation now.

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      • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
        7 years ago

        No you may not take a bloody DNA sample! Goodness me I just had a flash of millions of me pouring off the production line, ready for action like a Cherry 2000

        You're not the Messiah you're a very naughty boy!

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        • Tempest-au
          7 years ago

          Oh goodness no! Limited production run only! Anything too common loses its value.

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    • Duderanch
      7 years ago

      No idea about 42 but I call bottom.

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      • Tempest-au
        7 years ago

        42. The answer to the ultimate question of life, the universe, and everything.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    I get hit on constantly to it gets old I've started wearing a wedding ring becos it gives me a easy out from those situations without hurting feelings.

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  • kellibean.no.1
    7 years ago

    Yeah, it's normal because there are pros & cons for everything, but come on! Think about it logically. If being gorgeous sucks & being ugly sucks, why not just be gorgeous & have it suck, but at least have dates! Wanna be unattractive? Here. Ill take your attractiveness from you & you can have my hard life. Thanks. You're welcome :)

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    So throw shit at people.

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  • Tempest-au
    7 years ago

    Perfectly normal. I am one of those who call a spade a spade - if I see someone I deem to be attractive, I will compliment them. Similarly, if I am talking to someone who I feel is particularly informed, clever, witty, has a great personality, etc - I will compliment them on that too.

    Personally, I put the mind wayyy ahead of the body. Seriously, you should have seen my last wife - "Plain" is an understatement. Still doesn't mean I won't appreciate a beautiful woman for being a beautiful woman.

    Now, someone with a cool personality, who is down to earth, funny, goofy, weird, etc AND is pretty... I think you'd make me feel inadequate and unworthy! ;)

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