Is it normal if im scared my bf will like my sister more?

Okay this is weird, delusional BUT you never know it could happen. When I met the guy I'm seeing right now I knew he would fit in my life perfectly. He just reminds me of a part of home. So ya that's a good thing but then as we kept dating, I noticed he has A LOT in common with my older sister. My sister and I are a like so that says me and him have those things in common but theirs is like on another level. I feared introducing them cause I just thought he would not only see me in her but in addition to all their similarities. Finally they met but it was brief. I do think tho that my sister thinks he's cute. I know it. What doesnt help is hes older than her so it makes even more okay. She has a bf who she loves very much tho so ya there's that but that doesn't stop feelings. From their style to their taste in everything. Part of it is yes cause they're about the same age and he's five years older than me. I think they grew up more around the same era but I kno its not a huge difference from me but still. I mean what could suck even more than having your sister/brother be a better match for the one you love? Its like I would like to see them get along but were pretty similar that they would get along on a different level. I just feel like I have to get rid of him for the better but then I know I shouldnt cause of that. Its scary, its a bummer, it's stressful, sad, etc.

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  • ygrowup

    Normal to think about this, but not act on it Many times opposites have a much greater attraction when it comes to couples. After all it's boring if your mate cannot bring something new to the relationship! You may unique, so make the best if it!

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  • KeepsakeDoll

    If he really loves you then he's going to continue loving only you.

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    • I just have a bad feeling that they will get along and isolate me even if she has a bf. The tree of them will isolate me and I'll have to let him go. Ideally I would want to prove to him that I'm a good match for him but so far it hasn't been that great.

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  • davesumba

    Completely normal for girls to be insecure bitches. Carry on.

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    • Emma8801

      No.... it is not normal and that is not true at all. Just as many GUYS can be the same way as well. Gender has nothing to do with it. You’re just a misogynistic twat.

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  • RoseIsabella

    There's nothing you can do, because your powerless over whether or not they are attracted to each other.

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    • EccentricWeird

      There's a bit more to a relationship than attraction, jelly bean.

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      • RoseIsabella

        You speak the truth, cupcake.

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        • EccentricWeird

          Thanks for agreeing, candycane.

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    • So not even let him go? Just stay and suffer?

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      • RoseIsabella

        Yes, you can let him go of course. What I mean is that there's nothing you can do to prevent them from being attracted to one another.

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