Is it normal if im not sure how to be there for him?

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My bf, who I am getting serious with than before when we were just seeing each other, is going through a phase in terms of his career. He finally got a job but its not really what he wants to do and what he went to school for so he's still on the search for that while he does this new job. So he's just going through this phase while he gets ready to start his real career. We're long distance so that doesn't help me give him the support I want to give him. All we have is our phones but of course i tell him some motivational things and just try to be there for him but I feel like I can do more. Like I can prob find a job for him and set up an interview and he would def love me for that especially cause I know what he wants to do and just more things. But at the same time, I feel like it could be too much and maybe just being there for him when he calls me or something is enough. Plus, I also feel like he doesn't deserve me being his superhero cause of the things we been through mainly cause of him and his lack of effort and mixed signals but part of it is cause of his focus on work right now. Idk how else to be there for him. Any suggestions?

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  • TheInsignificantGirl
    9 years ago

    Maybe talk to him about him finding a job closer to you and offer your help

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I have but like joking and serious at the same time but I don't wanna push it cause doesn't that seem selfish of me? I live in LA and you can find almost anything here and I believe he has looked but maybe not hard enough or he just hasn't been lucky.

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