Is it normal if i wish i wasn't a girl when it comes to guys?

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One of the things I learned from dating the guy I'm seeing right now is that guys really lack thought and sight. They really are blind and they don't know what's going on. That's why guys call girls crazy because we say things that they do that they are not aware of at all! Whether its us over-analyzing or it is fact but the guys can't see it, that's why guys look at us crazy. Guys are just very solid, straight thinkers while girls are all over the place and do see through things. So not only have I been dating a guy with common male traits but his personality might take it to another level. I have seen guys express themselves but he can't. It's really hard to communicate with someone that you don't know whats going on in their heads. I might think he is annoyed of me and then I confront him about it and it turns out, he was totally enjoying my company and I cause drama. Its hard and it sucks. So sometimes I really wish I wasn't a girl so I didn't have to think these things that probably don't even exist and we are just mind-f*cking ourselves. It would save a lot of time and energy. I think if I had the brain of a man at the same time dating one, things would be solid and super drama free.

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    Thinking like a guy in a relationship wouldn't help you, you both would be one sighted and what good would that do?

    Plus not all guys are like that, you must just date the dumber half of the male species. I know more guys that are in tune and upfront about their feelings than I do women. They know what's going on, they're just better at turning off the bullshit.

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  • Crμsades
    9 years ago

    Keeps dating meat heads.

    Says straight thinking is a male trait.

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    • shuggy-chan
      9 years ago

      Op doesnt realize the difference between straight and narrow.

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  • Tommythecat.
    9 years ago

    If women were smarter there wouldn't be so many successful serial killers roaming America right now.

    Just sayin'......

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Actually, I have never seen more drama in relationships than when I kept the boat behind a gay hotel in Ft. Lauderdale. I lived there for years, so I'm not talking about one or two examples, but weekly, if not daily these guys would go off on each other over the most trivial things, day or night.
    So, I seriously doubt "if I had the brain of a man at the same time dating one, things would be solid and super drama free." that things would be any better, and perhaps a lot worse.
    I think you need to expect less from men and accept them as they are, just as a wise man learns to navigate the wild, emotional swings many women go through periodically.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      As a girl, it's really hard to avoid the extra emotions and thoughts that are consuming us. So as much as I would like to expect less and forget about what I'm thinking/feeling because it might not be real, I can't. And even if I try, it'll consume me and result in my mood. I def don't want to act like b*tch or be debbie downer and when he ask "is something wrong?" I say "no everythings kool." That won't solve anything. So meh, I guess if I really train myself to avoid these things and expect less from him or guys in general I should be fine. I actually am though gradually. I really don't expect guys thinking what I am thinking at that moment now and yeah it is drama free.

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    There are low drama women that convey a feminine perspective while interacting closely with the male psyche. They're experts at intimacy. I suppose it's something you learn from your parents and perfect in young adulthood.

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