Is it normal if i want to like fingering but... it doesn't feel good

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I am 18 years old. I have never had sex, but have been in a number of sexual encounters resulting in oral/fingering. In the past I dated guys I wasn't sexually interested in, and just "went along with it", and it was obviously not enjoyable. Now I'm dating a really attractive guy who really turns me on, but I am still unable to get any pleasure from being fingered. In fact, it's uncomfortable and kind of hurts. When masturbating, I never finger myself, but just rub or cross my legs to apply pressure.
I've been wondering, is this normal?
Also, women: does fingering feel better after losing your virginity? I'm wondering if this is a hymen thing.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    Most guys don't have any idea of how to do it in a way that women like. In fact most of them just jab you will their fingertips and nails. Tell him (whoever him is) to get you a vibrating toy and watch YOU do it to yourself.
    Most guys have no idea what feels good to you and if you don't show them they wont learn.
    btw I never found fingering painful just annoying so sorry cant answer the virginity question.

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  • lc1988
    9 years ago

    This^^ Maybe asking them to rub your clit but would probably still result in jabbing. ah to be 18 again.

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