Is it normal if i want to go on a blind date with girls?

I'm a girl and its not what you think. All of my friends, well I shouldn't say ALL, but most of my friends and the ones I go out with are guys and it has been getting more and more frustrating, especially cause I have a bf. Guys can care less if you have a bf. They will take advantage or feel good if they have your girl in any way; whether at the club or just hanging out. Knowing that she's with him even if its innocently as friends, makes that guy friend feel good some way like "I have your girl." So fucken immature yet unfortunately its the true story.

I am losing guys friends little by little cause they weren't friends after all or still had that "she's not with her bf but with me" feeling deep inside. Eventually I find out that even if they are not directly trying to steal me away from my bf, they don't wanna hear about my bf, they will get a little jealous when I talk about my bf. Before taken, I would go out with these "guy friends" one on one just to hang out and obviously I didn't find a problem cause I was single so I didn't know it looked wrong or I was leading them on. Now that Im in a relationship and its been progressing and couldnt be any happier, I try to go out with those guy friends like I used to but one)I do feel a little guilty but I know its all innocent since they're my "guy friends" right? nooo. Two) apparently they don't give a shit or are happy and respect that Im in a relationship. It is so irritating because they are the only friends I have that I hang out with the most.

Another thing is my bf is becoming my best friend so those guy friends think they know me more than he does which is pretty stupid. I do have gfs but I don't hang out with them. Maybe like three gfs and thats it and well hang out very rarely. I need to make more gfs or at least gay guy friends so I don't feel like all I have are those guys. Plus as a girl, it is important to have gfs and as Im getting older (im gonna be 23) Im realizing that and its hitting me especially being in this relationship. I graduated college already, I had two jobs the last few months, one w just two guys and made good friends with one of them (wow surprise as if I need more guy friends!) and the other one being very diversed but didn't have the opportunity to mingle since we were always working. Idk how to go out and find new friends like I just need to go on a blind date and find that good group of gfs that someday will be my bridesmaids but right now, I only have groomsmen, or not even since Im leaving all of them right now little by little.