Is it normal if i think guys are more innocent than girls?

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Although guys can be dicks and heartless, I feel like girls are just evil. Btw I'm a girl. And the reason I believe why in general, they are evil is because they need an ego-boost. Guys are usually known to be big into egos but it's not like they PLOT and try to make themselves better than the other. I think guys just THINK they're already better so they don't bother wasting time on something that they're better at. So they just move on. For girls, they're big on self-esteem and usually are known to have low self-esteem, sometimes they don't even know it or want to admit it. But in a way, girls like to plot something, or think too much, and make sure that they are the superior one in the situation but it's cause they know inside they ain't shit. This applies especially in relationships. Girls want to be put first because they know that if they take ONE step back behind their guy, they already feel insecure. Confident girls won't mind walking behind a man (literally and figuratively) because they know they're on the same level. This one's my favorite...when girls think they're "too good" to be in a relationship or "don't need one," that's when it shows 100% that she has low self-esteem and is just plain evil dissing these good guys because she needs to carry an ego as a security blanket. When a girl says "I don't need a man." She's lying...to herself and to you. She just wants to look good but women need to embrace the fact that we are emotional beings and do need that partner to be compatible with.And its OKAY, it's not a sign of weakness. We love that. If it doesn't work out with a guy, rather than being bitter about it, learn from it, grow and move on. I get when they say "financially not need one" which yeah it's great but most of those girls take it to another level and begin to plot something to make sure she look superior. The only person she needs to be better than is herself.

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  • Koda
    9 years ago

    I think everybody, regardless of gender, has an equal affinity for evil, as evil has many forms, but at the root, always comes down to the very human quality of selfishness.

    Men see the evil in other men more easily, and women see the evil in other women more easily because we generally compete with our own gender and deify the opposite gender. It's pretty ridiculous.

    The only reason people end up hating on a single gender, race, religion, etc. is ignorance. They only see what they expect to see from past experience. People base their whole world view on generalizations and assumptions sometimes. It takes a lot of living with eyes wide open to break those down.

    You're a straight girl, so you see the world as one, and as such, you're confined to straight girl thoughts and having "straight girl problems". I'm sure a wimpy straight guy would see the world of elitist macho men as pretty cruel and unfair. And I'm certain someone gay would rank the evil of homophobic bigots far worse than the cattiness of bitter women.

    We can't learn much from others who are just like us, but we want so desperately to "belong" that we form our little groups and shut out the rest. Truly though, if we want to be wise and have perspective, we have to listen to people who are nothing like us and think nothing like us.

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  • ArayaLioness
    9 years ago

    It's your opinion, though I think it's quite irrational to judge all/most women in such a way. I've seen and heard about many men who scheme their way and step on their brethren.

    I would think any wo/man would like to be put first before anyone else. It makes sense because that wo/man is in a romantic relationship with the other individual.

    I'm a confident woman, but I'm not going to stand behind a man because I'm not a dog or a follower nor am I going to stand in front of him. I will stand BESIDE him.

    Finally, there are women who do NOT need a man. They can make it without them. I think people who tend to think that someone "needs" a man is insecure themselves. And what about lesbians?

    I disagree with your thought process. It seems like a bunch of generalizations. But I don't think it's abnormal.

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    • Koda
      9 years ago

      I agree. I don't think anyone should "need" a partner. They should be self-sufficient and self-assured enough to enjoy life single. Having a partner should be a want and not a need. I think it's a sign that you need closer friends if you're lost after a break-up.

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  • regisphilbin
    9 years ago

    you attach too much importance to gender, people are individuals.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I think you are pretty naive. Guys certainly do have a lot of one ups man ship and bullshit games that they use to determine the alpha male in every group.
    Girls have coffee clutches and sewing circles; men have gangs, usually violent ones, at that.
    Girls rarely instigate extreme violence just to prove their femininity, and mostly when they do violence, it is at the behest of a man or to impress a man.
    You sound very young and as if you have actually spent very little, if any, time with males of any age.

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