Is it normal if i scare myself from how attractive i am?

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I literally turn myself on. Now before you judge, I'm not coming from a cocky perspective, this is all innocent. I'm not the type to grow up fast or have the balls to change my looks often, spend on my appearance, etc. I'm going to be 23 and a lot of girls my age already look really mature and hot at the same time. But I think it just depends on how you grew up so with that being said, I grew up in a fairly, conservative, stable family and good friends. But I have always been the one who "should model" and now I'm seeing by what they mean. I look in the mirror or take pictures and yeah I just cant believe how hot I am lol. If I go all out, wow. When Im having sex with my bf, I like having a mirror cause I like watching myself since I get turned on more by me than by him honestly. I have a good body, I am affectionate, I'm just overall a sexy beast lol. Friends would always tell me but I would brush it off since I just didn't believe them but now I do. Growing up, you do spend more time on yourself so that has contributed also to how attractive I look. Idk I feel like a nerd but at the same time, I know I have this wild, sexy side to me and I just wonder, if I didn't grow up like how I grew up would I be even more sexy and more confident about it?
At the end of the day, if you're beautiful, own it, don't be ashame or shy of it. Forget people who put down girls who are really out there. Yeah there's some who are just plain sluts and low lives but there also some who simply show what they're made of and are proud rather than hiding it. Embrace your features. That's what Imma do especially that I am still young.

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Short4Words

8 years ago

You work with what you've got there's no doubt that but I think you're on your way to being a full-blooded narcissist.

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- thegypsysailor
  
  8 years ago
  
  It actually sounds as though she soon will not even wish a partner for her sexual experiences. Anybody else around would just detract from her enjoyment of herself, don't you think?
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Lol no I'm a nerd and can be insecure especially being a girl. So you can't put me down for pointing out what I like about myself. After all, isn't it encouraged to not point out what you hate about yourself and point out what you do like about yourself? Meh
  
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  - Short4Words
    
    8 years ago
    
    It only became sad when you mentioned that you watch yourself in the mirror while having sex. As if your boyfriend wasn't there as if it's all about you. On the off chance you just caught your glimpse and couldn't resist, you're still under the power of vanity, which is a slippery slope to self-alienation and narrow-mindedness.
    
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thegypsysailor

8 years ago

My, what a modest person you are, too.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  I know right ?
  
  Another close-minded one.
  
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  - thegypsysailor
    
    8 years ago
    
    Oh brilliant poster, it's "closed minded". Oopsie.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      As if that's relevant to my point
      
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      - thegypsysailor
        
        8 years ago
        
        It's really hard to take any point made by an illiterate person too seriously.
        
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        8 years ago
        
        Yeah I can understand since you're closED-minded
        
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RapidlyRotatingPanda

8 years ago

You think you have problems?!
Every time I even catch a glimpse of my reflection in a passing car's window I spend the next four hours wrestling with a firm, proudly standing totem of stoic masculinity.

Life's hard.

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anti-hero

8 years ago

Congrats?

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Crusades|

8 years ago

Wow. You're like the female version of me.

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- chained_rage
  
  8 years ago
  
  I actually thought this was you.. but then I was like "oh, I forgot, he sucks the cock"
  
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  - Crusades|
    
    8 years ago
    
    There's no cock in sight to suck since you put them all in your mouth.
    
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    - chained_rage
      
      8 years ago
      
      You know... sometimes you say the most hurtful things.
      
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LuxM4G

8 years ago

I think it's great that you feel good about yourself. There's nothing wrong with you. Haters gonna hate. No one envys the poor or the ugly.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Thanks haters are gonna def hate and no one can bring them up from their sad lives except themselves. So if you feel good about yourself without shoving it to everyone else's face constantly then good for you. Better than pointing out what you don't like about yourself.
  
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  - LuxM4G
    
    8 years ago
    
    Well, just keep up with the positive attitude and don't let people get under your skin. Be well.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      I try not to. Thanks appreciate it
      
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chained_rage

8 years ago

23 isn't that young anymore, honey. You're already starting to sag and rot from the outside in.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Don't honey me or try to put me down cause I have enough confidence to embrace myself rather than point out all the things I hate about myself HONEY
  
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jaxfreako

8 years ago

Your boyfriend deserves a better girl.

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Unimportant

8 years ago

ItDuz? That you?

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- regisphilbin
  
  8 years ago
  
  I think he would look good dressed like a woman.
  
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flyingnostalgia

8 years ago

Your post just grossed me out, just happy i havent seen or know you!

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green_boogers

8 years ago

I think you should indulge yourself in full fledged vanity. Put a mirror on your ceiling over your bed and have mirrors on walls around your house so you can glance at yourself every 2 minutes. Only date subservient male that will lick your boots. And always buy special presents for yourself to comfort your elitist heart.

Find friends that worship you. You are entitled to have sex with anyone, and demand anything in return.

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wasd75

8 years ago

Good for you?

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Ellenna

8 years ago

I know what you said at the start of your post, but the length and minute detail in the rest of the post did lead me to believe you're obsessed with yourself.

I wasn't trying to knock you down, merely pointing out that you seemed obsessive to me and that's it's not healthy to be so interested in your own physical appearance because it will change as you age.

I didn't understand the "scared" reference and still don't: is it your attractiveness that scares you, because that doesn't make sense to me, or how you feel about it?

Of course nothing wrong with enjoying your own good qualities, but if the only one you celebrate is your physical appearance that's out of balance

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  This post yes that's all I'm "celebrating." I didn't intend to talk about my whole life in this one post when it only had one topic.
  
  Well them simply, it's abnormal even though, i think if I can explain it better, it might make sense.
  
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  - Ellenna
    
    8 years ago
    
    I wouldn't put a normal or abnormal label on it, but it doesn't sound too healthy to me. There must be more to you as a person than your physical attractiveness? I hope so, because it's the most ephemeral aspect of a human, so easily marred or destroyed by accident, illness or age
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      Again this post was focused on my physical appearance. If I was writing a post about everything I embrace about myself then you wouldn't just get physical appearance. But this is based on my "attractiveness" nothing else so don't confuse my post with my life being focused solely on my physical appearance.
      
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Ellenna

8 years ago

You sound vain and totally obsessed with yourself: you won't always be as beautiful as you are now, you know, so I'd try and find some other interests in life or you're going to fall in a heap when your look start to fade.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Nope nope nope. You sound like you're trying to knock me down cause you're quickly jumping to conclusions and calling me "vain." I said right at the beginning that I'm not coming from a cocky perspective before you start judging. I might have not explained myself very well cause its hard to exactly point out how I feel without a hint of conceitedness.
  So the point is is it normal to scare myself knowing I'm really attractive cause deep down I'm shy and a nerd?
  Plus, what's wrong with embracing and acknowledging your good qualities and features? It seems that as soon as someone points out something good about themselves they're conceited. Then its encouraged to be confident and love yourself and not be afraid to show what you got. Ugh people don't know what they want.
  
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dirtybirdy

8 years ago

I scare myself from how attractive my personality is..

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- [Old Memory]
  
  8 years ago
  
  I scare myself from how unattractive my profile picture is.
  
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  - slings_and_arrows
    
    8 years ago
    
    Please change it?? I have looked a couple of times forgetting that that's the picture you had up.
    
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    - dirtybirdy
      
      8 years ago
      
      Aw, you don't like the 500 pound man and his gross boobs that are bigger than my head? For shame. I reckon he's actually a rather handsome devil.
      
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    - [Old Memory]
      
      8 years ago
      
      I cant. I tried and it wouldn't take my own picture. I'm really sorry for that. I actually look quite presentable
      
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  - noid
    
    8 years ago
    
    Hahaha
    
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  - dirtybirdy
    
    8 years ago
    
    It makes me want to sing some Radiohead.
    
    One day he'll get to you
    teach you how to be a holy cow
    you do it to yourself you do
    and that's what really hurts
    
    *motorboats*
    
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