Is it normal if i plan to use my sense of humor?
I don't think its me manipulating him because I am going to be suffering as well. But thats why he liked me in the first place because we can laugh at the same thing and have our own inside jokes. But lately, things have been falling apart because I caught real strong feelings for him while he can't see that and when you really like someone, you want to make it work and want comfort and satisfaction. So I'm not gonna say I ruined it cause I haven't. If he could put more effort things would be fine but I'm learning guys are just effortless in general and have their own way of showing their feelings for you. For example, he's mentioned he likes watching movies and laughing with me. I don't blame him. Sometimes we joke around about our problems like lately. But this past weekend something just randomly annoying occurred, and I don't let anybody get away with something when they have done something wrong especially him. It's so hard getting through his head, I have to make extra effort to pull things out of him, he's just so stiff and not expressive. I have a feeling its slowly falling apart all because a lack of communication and understanding. He doesn't like to talk and he has to realize there needs to be some type of talks every now and then even we joke around most of the time. But in order to maintain what we have, I just have to send him jokes or something funny like last week. We were on a roll but what I didn't like is we were avoiding what was really going on. We can't do this but its the only way he'll talk to me and he'll admit he's done something wrong. I get it, lets not look at it in sucha negative way but in a more positive way by sharing our sense of humor but what exactly does that solve? As much as i don't agree with it, I just plan to use our sense of humor to get by in a way and hopefully he'll see me how he used to see me and we'll be good.