Is it normal if i plan to ask out the guy i've been talking to?

He makes me happy and secure and there's no one else I wanna be with. It feels so sure, like I don't even want to bother meeting someone else or anything. As for him, he has a really likable character so I have gone through some jealousy here and there but he always came back to me. But when it comes to being serious or expressing himself, he's really good at beating around the bush. He has his own way of saying/doing things and it has made an impact in our relation. However, I honestly feel like I'm the one who feels stronger. So how do guys feel getting asked to marry their girl? Or getting asked out? I just feel like I have the power to do so, why wait for him? and what if we both feel like making our relationship more official but I'm the one to usually make the move? I love him so much and I would like to ask him out. And even in the future, I feel like I would ask him to marry him. Who knows, maybe the guy is really unsure of when/how to ask so leave it to her. I look at it as he'll appreciate it so much and think it's special cause its always the guy to make the first move well, leave it to the girl for once. If I feel like being his gf or marrying him just like how the guy feels when he wants to ask her out/marry her, well why wait around for him to make the move? Aside from it being "tradition," why not?

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  • Unimportant

    Sure, go for it.

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  • mountain-man82

    Sounds like the guy isnt that into you or is for lack of a better word, a pussy.

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    • If he's a pussy, what's your point? I can't ask him out?

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      • mountain-man82

        Never said that. If you wanna ask out a pussy go ahead. Just make sure hes a pussy that cares about you, meaning: make sure he actually cares about you so you dont become one of the women on here that complain about picking guys that dont care about them.

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        • Sounds like you're implying just cause he can't ask me out, he probably doesn't care. I probably sound like a fool being in denial but I can't type away and try to convince you that's not the case. It's basically the same thing...he would be surprised when I ask him out or propose just like how I would be surprised when he does. It doesn't make me a pussy (in this case) to not ask him out first just like it doesn't make him a pussy to not ask me out first. Why does a guy propose or ask her out? Cause he feels like it and its the right time. So if the girl feels like it's the right time, why should she wait? just cause its tradition? No. I don't see any other reason why it would be wrong.

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          • mountain-man82

            All Im saying is to make sure that he actually cares first.

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