Is it normal if i'm taking advice from cartoons?
I've been watching Hey Arnold (yay for 90s kids!) and I just love how these super entertaining cartoons always have a hidden message but when you're a kid you really don't see it but now that im older I obviously got it. They make it so simple like if we could all just follow these simple messages and apply them to real life I think it would be less stressful. Life isn't that hard if you don't make it hard. One of the things I noticed though is how both girls and boys love the chase and the challenge. Helga loves Arnold yet chases him away and that's when she gets all fuzzy about him. Arnold was trying to approach Ruth, his crush, but he never got to actually talk to her yet he even said it, "I didn't get to talk to her but the challenge makes me like her even more." Hint hint. You think its only people today who enjoy the challenge and possibly look crazy to older people but it has actually always been like that. With that being said, I know that the person I've been talking to I'm crazy for but it's been a challenge but ONLY because i have real feelings for them not cause I just find them attractive. And I guess that's okay. You can treat someone really good but that doesn't mean they're gonna go for you. Its all about the feelings not necessarily the challenge. But when we have real feelings for someone, its not going to be perfect but its going to be worth it because of how happy they just make us feel.