Is it normal if i'm scared to face my bf after expressing myself while drunk?

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So last night was the first time my bf got to see me drunk, I warned him but still, I don't think it fully helped him to prepare what he was about to experience. The night wasn't a total disaster but as always I made a fool out of myself and in front of his friends, and then when we left I just lost it and started crying all my tears out. I've been carrying some thoughts about us, me, and other stuff so I guess the alcohol pushed me to let it all out. One of the things is I finally told him that I love him. I've been planning to tell him but no way did I have it planned when I'm drunk. So it kinda sucks he had to hear it that way. I also expressed how my bad past w my family and people have made an impact, that's where I feel like I said too much.
Now I don't know what to do or say when we talk. It's gonna be so awkward, do I bring up the I love you part? I'm also just gonna be prepared for the worst when he describes how I was in front of his friends. I'm so scared to face him. He's not mad but idk if he's weirded out by me now.

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  • jondoerandom
    11 years ago

    Drunk girls are the worst. Sorry. I worked at a pub and it's like you, ladies, follow the same idiotic scenario that always ends up in vomiting/crying and vomiting and crying at the same time. it's like the bartenders got nothing else to do.

    Now, I can't say that i haven't seen enough guys making idiots of themselves, so the rule is -if you can't hold your liqour stay the hell away from it.

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    People get drunk and make fools of themselves. Your bf and his friends have seen it before and will see it again. It is likely they have done and will do it again themselves. Say you're sorry for anything that you regret and forget about it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      The thing is he doesn't drink. His friends do but he doesn't so I am not sure how crazy his friends have been while under the influence. Maybe I was too much for them? and plus I'm their friend's gf so I don't want my bf to be embarrassed by me :/

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    HaHa classic, we have all made asses out of ourselves under the influence one time or another. I have stories that make me laugh to this day (although they were not funny then)

    Best thing to do is just face it, if he is a decent guy he will not judge you for your actions "under the influence" especially if you warned him. Besides, it could have been a lot worse!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I think I flashed all of his friends but not my boobs. I was wearing this see through shirt with a tube top underneath so id lift my shirt and it looks like all they saw was my bra. I know I gave a lap dance as always and was being aggressive as always. Idk if he's embarrassed by me as well.

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      • Captain_Kegstand
        11 years ago

        Gave a lap dance to who?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          This girl. It was just me and her with guys including my bf so I remember giving her a lap dance because she wouldn't wanna dance since her brother was there so she was like no no not right now and Id be like okay but because i wasn't sober I just kept pushing her to do it. I also remember grabbing all the guys behind me to block her brother so I was just overall aggressive and touchy. And to be honest I don't remember what my bf was doing, I think he was still sitting down and watching.

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          • Captain_Kegstand
            11 years ago

            HaHa, Sounds like you didn't do anything too terrible. Just a case of the "I got too drunk oopsies". We have all embarrassed ourselves drunk, its okay lolz!

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              11 years ago

              Thats exactly what I told my bf when we talked about it. I was like all I can say is "Oops" because despite who was I with, I had a blast. That's who I am as a drunk and I'm happy so its not gonna change, he's not too happy about that but he still loves me so we shall move on from here.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Believe me...you're not alone. I think about all of us who like to sample the amber nectar wake the next morning thinking wtf?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Talk to him about it, it's better to let things out instead of holding on to them.
    He can help you get over your past

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      He is a good bf and he probably will help me get over my past, but I wish I had told him when I was sober so I had more control over what I said. What if I said more than what I remembered? and what I remembered I said was already too much

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