Is it normal if i like him because he takes my pride away?

I have always been all about me and not in a conceited way but more of "if its not good for me then I'll move on." Easily, I would walk away. When it came to guys, I would put myself first. If he treated me wrong or I just wasn't happy, I would do something about it and not be afraid of losing him. It was just all about pride and ego. Now, I don't know what my current squeeze has done to me but I like it. It's like I have swallowed my pride for him and I'll do anything to be with him and make him happy. I think its cause I feel like I'm under him but in a good way, like he'll discipline me and not let me take advantage of him. I love that. I would never want to take him for granted or push him around. Even if I had the chance to, I know I would feel uncomfortable and just dishonest. I have been very unhappy with him sometimes but I put so much effort into making it work when I used to just stand up for myself and walk away with no worry. Now I get afraid of losing this guy. Its a sense of vulnerability I never felt before. I like it but it has its pros and cons. I can probably be with someone who makes me feel more like I can take over the world and possibly prideful again but I choose not to because idk...there's just a sense of sincerity and authenticity that I feel when I'm with him even when it hurts sometimes. It's just real and that's something that I think I won't get if I'm with someone who makes me feel all prideful again. But like I said, I choose to be with this guy for this reason out of the many but it just means I have to deal with the downs of it and that includes sometimes feeling powerless with him or low in confidence. Idk if thats just me but I could feel like I don't have enough support to pursue things. It's not like he tells me I can't do anything but he could put a little more effort in supporting me. At the end of the day, I love this guy and although we're technically single but still talking, I don't feel like being with anyone else so far. I'm all his. Girls exaggerate about wanting to be with a man who makes them feel like "Beyonce" or something but I think they forget that it feels good to have the man take over sometimes and feel that bit of weakness. They need to humble themselves down a bit. I feel humble with him like in touch with myself and not all about being strong and powerful but sometimes it can be rough. I just hope this is a good type of weakness.

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  • mebaby

    Sounds like your BF values himself way to much when needing to choose between you or himself.

    Its ok to like being dominated but not upto the point it ruins your own sense of self value.
    Wich you clearly arent liking.

    Find a guy with a strong will but who is good to you i geuss?

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  • Chemical-X

    emo kidssssss OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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