Is it normal if i like having feelings?

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I've never been sucha vulnerable person but once i met and dated my bf, he brought out the caring side of me. I care about him and us so much that even if he's hurt me (not intentionally but I just wasn't seeing what I wanted to see) it feels good to actually feel something. Although I'm known as this confident girl that no one especially no guy can bring down, I don't really mind looking almost like weak or desperate for him. Its not so desperate cause I don't let myself get to that point but I do respond to my feelings rather than dwelling on them and suffering on the inside. In example, if im feeling insecure about something he said, ill point it out even if it wasnt a big deal. If i feel like calling him to talk about a problem and I've been calling him, I don't mind calling him again. I just want him to see its all out of love not cause I'm a psycho or something. So that might make me look kind of desperate but like I said idc cause having feelings feels good, I feel real and so passionate for him, for one person only. I almost kind of feel set with him like I'm willing to deal with all the downfalls cause I love him. Its a different story when trying to deal with the problems with someone you just like or is interested in. Theres nothing much that pushes you to fight for it. But when you really love someone, its there pushing you and you don't care cause ur just acting on ur feelings. So are all the tears and fights worth it? Yeah I think so.

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  • derpyderp
    9 years ago

    IMO a big part of falling in love is being vulnerable.
    Opening yourself up to someone entirely, therefore exposing the best & the worst of you.
    It's an exercise in trust & a scary one at that.
    How they react to the hard stuff can probably tell you a lot about your compatibility & the strength of your relationship.

    What you're doing is entirely normal & really good. Communicate EVERYTHING you can. The clearer things are the less chance of problems caused by miscommunication

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    • derpyderp
      9 years ago

      Wow, that was fucking serious :/

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  • THL22
    9 years ago

    Yes. Oh my god yes! Give in to that feeling! Embrace the love that is given you and give back even more. I don't think you're insecure. I think you just care about what he thinks of you. And that's fine! We've all been there. Just threat him like you want to be loved and everything will be alright. I wish you all the best in your relationship!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Thanks! Yeah you know some people prefer to stand up and walk away during hard times and look like nothing can stop you. Well I think thats your ego consuming you and its not reality. IDC if I look a certain way to him. We only have one life and I don't plan on wasting it pretending to be something I'm not. I don't wanna walk away from him thinking it will make me feel good. It might short term but in the long run and realistically, my unhappiness will be there and I can't just pretend like I'm doing fine without just to look good because the only thing that made me happy was to be with him no matter what.

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      • THL22
        9 years ago

        That's great to hear!:D You go get 'em!

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  • Arm0se
    9 years ago

    It's amazing isn't it? Love is the best feeling in the world; just plain magical.

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