Is it normal if i lack sex with the person im dating because of these plans ?

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When my guy and I hook up, I leave him hanging bad! lol its bad and I feel bad because hell give me affection but I dont really. One, I dont and will never give a bj and two, I dont want to have sex w him because I plan to lose my virginity to someone else, someone particular that is so Im still waiting to get w that one and finally have sex. But for now, if I had lost my virginity w that special guy already, I would have sex with this guy Im dating. Its just something I cherish and dont want to give it away to just anybody and so, I already know who I wanna lose it to but it sucks torturing my guy right now giving pleasure til the main course. It sucks! But then I tell myself I rather leave him hanging than regretting losing it to someone else other than my special one.

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  • justaskingt
    12 years ago

    It ain't that serious! You will regret that person and wish you didn't by the time you turn 12. I'm assuming you're 10.

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  • chickenrooster
    12 years ago

    In time if you dont end it he will. If you dont give your guy blow jobs he wont feel loved and wont treat you extra special. So give blow jobs for your sake not for his.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    It's ok to wait.

    However if you have a specific person in mind.... you may want to evaluate why it has to be him... Just because you build someone up in your mind does not mean he's going to rock your world in bed. In fact your first time is usually somewhat painful. (romance books like to lie)

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  • ThisIsNotAUsername
    12 years ago

    You are hilarious!

    'Its just something I cherish and dont want to give it away to just anybody'

    You cherish it, really?

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      This comment from someone who said in another story

      "Love has no boundaries"

      So what do you believe in? Love having no boundaries or not cherishing your virginity enough to just lose it to whomever?

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      • ThisIsNotAUsername
        12 years ago

        I love you.

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        • [Old Memory]
          12 years ago

          That's impossible.

          Nobody loves me.

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          • ThisIsNotAUsername
            12 years ago

            I love you so much that my face is going to explode.

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