Is it normal if i hate being the attractive girl?

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Sometimes when I notice Im the attractive one in the room, I fear attention because I'm shy and kind of have social anxiety. So whenever people are asking me questions or looking at me, I feel like they expect a lot from me and I'm just scared of all the attention. Sometimes I dont really care and probably am different than what they expected so whatever. But most of the time, I like blending in not having all the attention on me. Sometimes I try dressing down or looking very casual and I feel like there's more attention. I dont know as I said before, I do have social anxiety so it could all be because of that.

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  • RamennoodleMaster
    8 years ago

    its good that you act like a lady in such situations. its very unattractive for a woman to be bitchy or commanding, i much more prefer attractive girl who's humble and quiet that a loud and commanding bimbo.

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  • Gina-G
    7 years ago

    I wasn't exactly a wall flower, but my (now) husband built up my confidence. He encouraged me to wear more revealing dresses, much shorter than I was used to. Then. when we were out in any sort of public event he would ask me for my knickers. That was scary for a while, but eventually I became comfortable with looking good, wearing short dresses and no knickers. Still the same today. Hope you get your confidence.

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  • Holzman_67
    8 years ago

    your shyness only adds to your good looks
    trust me you'd be better off being totally obnoxious, people wouldn't be curious that way.

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  • Rihyae
    8 years ago

    Don't hate it, try to embrace it silently. I feel the same way sometimes.

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