Is it normal if i get jealous because...?
I've never been a jealous person, I guess because I can just care less about people and just too lazy to even have the energy to feel that envy. However, ever since I met the guy I've been talking for almost a year, I started feeling jealousy. Part of it is because I actually like this guy, I love him and its true, it's okay to feel jealous because it just shows that you care and like I said before I didn't care and this guy has touched me so deep. But I also feel jealous and so concerned and over-protective because I used to be "the other girl." I have been that girl someone's bf has cheated with and it's not like I was enjoying it, in fact, it pissed me off to know that guys and yes girls too think they can get away with it. But I've been that girl that guys have been attracted to and had a secret thing for while their girls are intimidated by me. They feel insecure because I'm there in the same room and its just tension all over the place. I don't wanna say i felt good but i did feel some sort of confidence. Now that I'm on the other side, I know how those girls feel that my dude might be hitting on them or at least those girls think they have a chance. It's so annoying because they feel so secure, and confident like "your bf/gf is digging me." SO that's mainly the reason why I can get really jealous is because I know how those girls are because I used to be one. When I was one of those girls, I would tell them or in my head tell them to relax and chill because nothings going to happen but in denial that yeah their bf was digging me and who knows maybe something would happen between me and their bf. So now I just feel this insecurity whenever some other girl comes in the room I know has a thing for him or he has a thing for. It's annoying to feel jealous and just a waste of time. I don't want to feel uncomfortable any more. I want to feel like that secure girl I used to be around my bfs, and not in a careless way but in a more confident way.