Is it normal if i find it funny when he gets mad?

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I find it amusing when my bf gets upset at something I did/say. He tends to not care about a lot of things that he believes is not worth his time so most of the times when we argue, its cause of me. I'll bring up something that bothers me and he'll say sorry or defend himself (mostly be stubborn and defends himself). But there has been about three times during our whole relationship that he has genuinely gotten upset and I swear, I almost burst out laughing. Its funny to see him get mad like wow you do have emotions lol. Plus, its pretty relieving cause I know that he does care about us. If he wouldn't get upset, then I just figure he can't care less about the problem since he can't care less about us. So once I can sense him getting irritated, I relax and feel better. It sounds like my purpose is to make him upset but thats not the case at all. Its all just more of a relief.

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CountessDouche

9 years ago

You sound like a cunt.

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Unimportant

9 years ago

I always find it funny when people get mad. Except when it's me.

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[Old Memory]

9 years ago

Yet another example of why men DO NOT need women in their life anywhere near as much as women need them.

This post details how a woman knowingly pisses a man off and instead of feeling bad or remorseful it's suddenly funny.

I can't imagine the responses if this was about a man pissing off a woman or cheating on them, etc

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Look idk about other girls but I know in general, all we fucken want is to feel loved and cared for. And when he is not responding in any way, it just causes us to nag even more cause we're trying to bring out some type of emotion to show us he CARES. Were not nagging to purposely get him pissed off.
  
  I do feel bad and sometimes even scared when he starts genuinely getting mad cause idk bout for other guys but when he's pissed, he's pissed. He needs some time to get it over with. So once I sense him getting irritated, I cool down before it gets worse and I feel better knowing oh he does care okay so now let's just communicate our problems in an adult way and that's it. But guys tend to lack communication skills and that's one simple tool for a relationship to work. Its not that hard to work it out. But I do know that guys have a bigger ego than girls and it just traps them to express any time of emotion so that's whats irritating.
  
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  - kingofcarrotflowers
    
    9 years ago | pl
    
    Way to paint all guy and women with one brush each
    
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  - charli.m
    
    9 years ago
    
    No.
    
    If you can't accept someone as they are, regardless of whether they show their damn emotions in a way you find "normal" or "acceptable" or not, don't be in a relationship with them if your intent is to fuck with them just to make yourself feel better. That is an awfully selfish thing to do.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      Read my posts until you get it when I said NOT DOING IT ON PURPOSE. So no, my INTENT ISNT TO FUCK WITH THEM. Thats something typical I knew people would jump into without thinking outside of the box.
      
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      - charli.m
        
        9 years ago
        
        I did read your post. Youre incredibly critical of how he expresses himself. That's all the info I need. Leave the poor bastard alone.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        9 years ago
        
        You can say it's a trust issue then, but to think I'm just being critical? It's a typical thing to guess about a girlfriend having problems with her boyfriend.
        
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    9 years ago
    
    You can't expect a man to CONSTANTLY be showing you he cares, it's not possible to do. If you know this type of behavior is leading to him responding this way than you have to stop doing it.
    
    Men are men, we can't turn it off and on or be a man when it suits women's needs.
    
    NOW YOU ARE PISSING ME OFF!
    
    (not really I'm just trying to help)
    
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  - omgcatz
    
    9 years ago
    
    Men in general dislike being disrespected. If he knew you found his pain 'funny', he would feel like you don't respect him and his ego would take a major hit. You might even cause him to have low self-esteem if he really cares about your opinion.
    
    No it's not normal to find joy in other people's unhappiness. You should feel guilty or at least upset/worried that someone you claim to love is feeling badly. It's called empathy. Tbh you sound like a psychopath.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      You should tell him everything you told me because the one who's being disrespected in this relationship is me. I always cater to him, I respect and support him, always there for him and my love towards him doesn't get reciprocated. That's why I find it relieving when finally he shows some emotion because he's finally empathizing with my feelings.
      
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      - omgcatz
        
        9 years ago
        
        If he's such a selfish jerk, then why do you stay with him at all? If I treated someone like a prince and he showed no emotion, I'd think I was getting played and leave.
        
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- daydreamer394
  
  8 years ago
  
  You are one thick cunt...
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    8 years ago
    
    Oh my god! Thank you for this insight. I'll be sure to change!
    
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Razaa

9 years ago

omg I totally do this to. My BF is so cute when hes mad. Its like "you do love me"!.

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101714

9 years ago

i find it funny too lol. its not just you dont worry. i feel extremely bad but then its so cute and sweet and everything lol

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daydreamer394

8 years ago

I think I know what you mean. You're insecure, right? So you want to make sure he cares by getting a reaction out of him. It's a relief for you; what about him? You know that you can bring him out of his shell to be communicative by ... *gasp* showing love? I'm female but I don't really show emotion, so there's your stereotype busted. I wonder how mad you make him mad though? And how mad?

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- [Old Memory]
  
  8 years ago
  
  You understand insecurity because you are insecure. Insecure people absorb compliments, while rarely (or never) giving any themselves. Easily understood people and dispensed with.
  
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  - daydreamer394
    
    8 years ago
    
    Darling, "troll" isn't a synonym for "whinger". Just because I despise you doesn't mean I haven't handed out compliments to those who deserve it. In fact, I'm a lovely person. Just goes to show how low you are.
    
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    - [Old Memory]
      
      8 years ago
      
      I don't despise you. That's pretty ridiculous, considering what this website is.
      
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Yeah I guess but no. I can't just bring him out of his shell whenever I want which is why I like it when he does have a reaction because it is a relief. But yeah, besides liking it, I find it funny since he barely shows when hes mad.
  
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Kbryant0107

9 years ago

I've done this, too. I felt bad, but I was like "aww you're getting mad about something, that's so sweet!"

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Is it normal if i find it funny when he gets mad?