Is it normal if i feel like i need a guy for motivation after saying i don't?

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The thing is I never wanted to be that girl who needed someone to make them happy and motivate them to do bigger and better things, but I can't help the fact that that's kind of happening right now. I always wanted to be the independent girl who only needs herself after all, Ive always been alone and I'm still here; I'm the one who cheers myself up, who makes me happy, who says to keep going, etc. However, I met this guy and honestly Ive never had what I have with him before. It seems like he'll always be there for me as if he really cares about me not to mention in the beginning of us going out, I considered him only as a friend and I could see him as a good friend but he wouldn't give up and eventually won me over. The reason why he grew on me was because of how he treats me. With him though, I feel like I can do a lot because he'll always be there. Right now he's on a trip so I feel really empty like I can't do anything until he comes back. It feels so wrong! Exactly what I didn't want to happen to me. Is this normal?

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  • sara.chd
    12 years ago

    Tell me about it! Being independent isn't all that easy, to be honest. I think it's perfectly normal to want to have someone else in your life, who cares about you, someone who actually gives a flip. Hey, we're social animals!

    You should continue to value your independence, but you don't have to be literally on your own in order to do that.

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  • hemper
    12 years ago

    He's your ROCK. and HA you're in love. but yea can't have said it better than sara. remember the whole is greater than the sum of each part. You probably mean as much to him.

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