Is it normal if i feel a little offended by this whole pregnancy thing?

Recently, my boy and I spent a weekend together and we hadn't seen each other for three weeks. We are not official but taking it slow before we decide to be exclusive. We're long distance by two hrs which is another reason why we don't plan to be together yet. Not sure how it's going to work because I don't see neither of us moving to where we are individually. But anyways, this weekend we had a lot of sex and again, a scare. I was supposed to have my period that weekend but didn't and now that we had sex, we were scared of not getting it at all. He said "we don't need this right now" which of course I agree, but he also made it seem like he wouldn't want a baby with me. I got my period so yay I'm relieved but I haven't told him. I feel so clingy or needy if I ask him would he want a baby with me in the future. That would just scare him first of all that I'm even thinking of that possibility but at the same time, I want to know. This says a lot about how he feels about me. If he doesn't want a baby with me in the next 10 years, then I'll be for sure now that it's not gonna work out. Especially that we are not official, why am I here? I also want to make it very clear to him that i am not waiting for him to finally ask me to be his gf. Because if he does anytime soon, I'll say no because of how we both mutually feel about the long distance thing and other factors. So this whole unofficial thing is a mutual decision. But for me, even if I don't want it exclusive yet, I do see and hope a future for us. For him, idk. what is his deal? It's going to be a year that we have been a thing so we're close and not to mention, the distance thing has made us even closer. I think he realized what he had over there every day all day. But then there are times where he just disappears. He won't contact me all day like today and whats funny is its usually when he goes out the night before. I kind of want to ask him if we were pregnant, would he keep it. How much does he want me is what I'm concerned about. If anything though, I'm ready to leave him if he f*cks up again. There has always been doubt in the back pf my head just in case.

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Comments ( 7 )
  • RoseIsabella

    You're sleeping with him, but not officially "with him", brilliant.
    :-/

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  • Gavin0420

    Hold da phone u had sex with this guy but u dont even know if your together? ! Girl lisen your dating trust me!

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    • Its been like a year ish that we have been like this.

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      • Gavin0420

        Just get one of your girlfriends to ask `if your official.

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  • SoulessSam

    You shouldn't be sleeping with someone that you aren't officially even dating. You have no idea if he's using you or not. Second of all, he could never want kids at all and still be serious about you, wanting a baby isn't a way to show someone how much you love them. Third of all, the fuck is wrong with you that you're not on birth control? And don't tell me oh but condoms because they are nowhere near as effective as hormonal bc like the pill. Get your ass on the pill beforp having a child with a guy who lives two hours away and doesn't even call you his girlfriend.

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    • You are right. For the first time this hitting me how I've been so lose with him and were not official. U don't call him my bf either this whole thing is mutual but it's more unsure of the guy if he is in the same page as me or using me since he is getting everything out of it.

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  • 213

    In my opinion i think he loves u ,but not ready for baby

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