Is it normal if i don't want to get over him?

Man I just came across a post of a girl my age (22) who wanted some advice about her being obsessed with her man. Sounded just like me except I don't think I'd be willing to admit all those things but what she wrote is all too true and I can relate. Basically shes obsessed with him but only cause she could possibly love him and they're long distance like me and my man. But she's coming off as too clingy and she doesn't want to come off like that, like me. She cannot concentrate on anything without thinking about him, like me. He consumes her like he consumes me. Because were long distance its harder to communicate and our phones are the only things we have. If he's not responding or contacting me like the usual, yeah I wonder why, its normal. He also likes his space like guys usually do and is love to give him that if that's what makes him happy but he needs to let me know why he needs that space rather than just leaving me hanging. The advice usually given for these situations is to distract yourself. Honestly, I hate that because once Im done with whatever activity I started, I come back home and the problem is still there. So I don't like getting distractions. Instead, I'm open to communication and resolving the issue then moving on. But yea it can be annoying if I keep bothering him to open up to me. He thinks I over analyze too much and probably too clingy for him. But if only people especially guys learned how to be honest and open and patient, problems would be solved and it would be easier to move on. Some people can leave the pieces on the floor and move on while others need to solve the puzzle before they can go on and thats me. But I have to find a medium in order to not look so obsessive but show that I care.