Is it normal if i don't want to be with an attractive guy ?

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I don't want to date someone who's really attractive and just super cute. One, I know I'll be dealing with a lot of nosy and jealous girls trying to bring me down to their level and ill just be annoyed. Two, I feel like people will think I'm dating him because he's attractive and that's it. Society is so annoying today and really quick to judge. I could just not care about what others think but I can't get anywhere today without bumping into someone so close minded and brainwash. How do I know this will happen? Cause its happening now. Not like I'm gonna leave him for these reasons but lesson learned for the next one, which I hope there isn't a next one cause I'm in love with him. When I met him, I thought he was just my type from looks to personality and then as we hung out more i noticed a lot of girls would hit on him and id take a look and I'm like "damn look at my man no wonder!" Lol. Yes it can be flattering but it could also be annoying. And girls are so caddy that they think they can somehow make eye contact and attract him. I've seen it and my dude is like a little kid look around not paying attention. The thing also is he might look a certain way but if they only knew how he was, he's not who they think he is. He's such a goofy kid and not flirty at all. If he gets flirty its cause he's interested and obviously he flirted w me which to be honest was out of nowhere. I thought we were just gonna be good friends but nope. Then whenever I show pics to friends and family, they say "ohhhh no wonder youre with him" honestly that's so insulting like ya I'm just with him for his looks and they're doubting my real feelings for him? Grrr its annoying. Sometimes I'm like "u look too cute today how bout tone it down" lol so I don't have to deal w this crap. I have tone it down for him as well but for a girl I think its easier to look different when a guys looks are effortless so there's nothing you can do to make him look ugly I guess. Haha. But ya it is hard dating someone really attractive, I don't think I'd be able to do it again.

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  • shuggy-chan
    9 years ago

    1st world problems

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    • Nokiot9
      9 years ago

      Fuck you and everyone else that says that shit. What? Are u using ur smart phone in the middle of Syria or Cambodia or something? STFU & Get off ur high horse

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      • braintrip
        9 years ago

        you are so fucking irrelevant it makes me laugh

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    • (s)aint
      9 years ago

      Why are you down-voted? It's true!

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      • shuggy-chan
        9 years ago

        maybe on the masochist and did it to myself

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        • (s)aint
          9 years ago

          You bad mofo.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    But physical attraction is a very important part of a healthy relationship. Trust me, if u get involved with someone you aren't physically attracted to, not only will it end in disaster, you will feel like you are just going through the motions. A lot of that finery passion comes from the chemistry of attraction. Don't side step it just because you don't wanna compete with other women. Or because you are afraid or whatever. You only live once. You only have the skin ur in ONCE. Take every advantage and opportunity you possibly can.

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    • Honestly989
      9 years ago

      If people are as superficial as you are than physical attraction is that important.
      The girl is obviously more advanced than you and does not care about looks. She did not even realize her bf was handsome when she got to know him, or did you miss that point?
      I like that. Girl, go on being yourself and disregard what people like Nokiot9 are saying. People like him are too body conscious to see the beauty of the soul. Nokiot9 will be stuck in his devotion of the body forever, and when he is 80 years old he is still going to look at 18 year old girls with saliva dripping off his mouth.
      I have broken it off with gorgeous girls because of their personality, and I have stayed with not as beautiful girls because they have a great character and personality and a great heart. When I love a girl and a girl loves me (not the body) than I am turned on, and not because a girl is physically hot.

      @Nokiot9: Maybe you need to have more sex to get it out of your system, than you will see what is really important.

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      • regisphilbin
        9 years ago

        +1

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    My gf won't let me around any of her friends for that reason lol. She's afraid they're gonna try to steal me away or something dumb like that. Works for me though. Most of her friends are shit bags, so it's no skin off my nose. And she always yells at me when some girl is supposedly checking me out. She'll go "did you see that girl checking you out?" And be mad at me for like a hour afterward like it was my fault. Like I'm wearing a big red arrow that says LOOK AT MMMEEEE!

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