Is it normal if i don't want to be w someone because they don't make out?

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Lol, so yeah I'm seeing this guy and he's a good person, likes me a lot, treats me right (so far), cute, good taste, etc. But I'm the type to like affection and mack not those little kissy sessions where you just kiss each other little by little like muah muah muah when I like it like muahhhhkjadhsauhejfuhbd :P. In other words, I feel as if he won't be able to handle me or think I am too agressive and i don't want to seem like a freak to him when he is more of a romantic, cuddling type of dude. It feels weird being with him all cutesy and taking it slow like I just want him to grab me and mack, I feel so anxious but he'll be like whoa if I try to make one of my moves. Hmm or is this a good thing he takes it this slow or romantic over freaky? I know being in a relationship means more than just affection but for me, affection is HUGE. Don't want to be a cheater so my ideal guy has to know how to give affection right.

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  • Francophile22
    11 years ago

    The guy that knows exactly how to proceed without a false move is a player. All other guys are going to be awkward a little bit.

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    You sound like the type that might like domination.

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  • bluesun
    12 years ago

    Do you want him to fuck your mouth for example!!!
    I'm in lost now, where is the guy from the girl in here *pass out*

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  • Solophonic
    12 years ago

    Make the first move, or ask him to! Don't just wait for others to take the first step!

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    How long have you been together? If it isn't long, he might not know that it is okay for him to do that with you. He might think that you want to take it slower.

    Have you talked to him about it? If he might not know that you want that, he might presume that you don't want it. You have to spell it out. Remember: us guys can be real idiots at reading signals.

    He might be, or thinks he is, a bad kisser. Therefore, he might be insecure about making out with you.

    Have you tried tried making a move on him? Start by taking it very slowly, but make sure that he knows where you want it to lead to.

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  • FourAMandstillgoin
    12 years ago

    This guy sounds wonderful and youd throw it away coz he wont slobber in your mouth, sorry just thinkin.

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