Is it normal if i don't want a relationship even when im really into someone?

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I just want a free, spontanious, affectionate, fun relation with a guy! Of course I have to really blush over him, not like just a fling. In general, I just get scared the guy might ask me out because were really going good and Im just going to say no, I just want to have fun. This might come off as no Im not really interested but I am! Just not the relationship thing. So I want the guy to understand I do like him and have him agree with having this ideal relation of mine with me because its almost as if he is getting what he wants but not fully. Just the journey of a relationship smells eh to me.

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  • Havin
    12 years ago

    Liilaaa3 agree completely. In fact I feel the same way.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    So you want the benefits of having a relationship without having the actual relationship? Sounds normal if guys have done it for so long.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      I guess an official relationship brings more tension and drama so I rather keep it open and flexible.

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