Is it normal if i don't believe who i am according to everyone?

It's kind of annoying how the way society perceives you is who you are apparently. Society includes family and friends. You know when you just naturally have an "angry" face but you're not angry or high arch eyebrows where you look sad but you're not? That's how I feel about my personality to others. Apparently, I come out as a brat, stuck up, selfish, conceited, superficial, etc. I seriously don't know why. I know that's not who I am and that's def not what i try to portray to everyone else. It's not fair. I am a good person and people look at my flaws I guess and not through them. I understand that who you are is according to you, not social situations. But unfortunately, we live with other people and interaction, so the person I am perceived as exist and I cannot tell them that's not who I am because I'm not gonna change my ways just cause they see them that way. If I portrayed myself on purpose the way pple see me, then yeah I'd try to change them if I cared, but since I don't even know I'm putting myself like that, I cannot change since idk what to change. Maybe it's my voice, my looks, idk what makes people see me in those ways.

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  • A lot of people at school get the impression that I am someone completely different than who I am, but I don't feel the need to wear my entire personality on my sleeve for them. If they want to be so negatively judgmental then that's their problem :P but yeah, deep down it bothers me. I hear ya. It's frustrating!!

    On my end, people think I am a condescending, annoying and cold know-it-all.

    I am kind of glad that other people feel this way. Misjudged people unite! *fist bump*

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  • I don't understand this either. I am often accused of being a way I don't perceive myself as.

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