Is it normal if i can't leave him?

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To be honest, I don't have a lot of experience being involved with guys but because I don't just go for anyone. I've only had one bf and it took like two months of dating before making it official. I liked him cause he made me feel comfortable like I can be anything i wanted tk be and he was there no matter what. But then we broke up after 2 yrs. Now that I'm with someone else but hes not my bf, I chose to be with this guy, not because of his qualities or looks even tho those are bonuses, but because he's the first person I have ever truly loved. Friends and family say how they've never seen me like this before, so vulnerable and passionate for someone. My heart is why I'm still with him even with all the struggles. Some pple might say its cause of the "chase" but its not cause of that cause if it was, then I would probably have more experience w guys than I do right now. Being with him might be a challenge but ts worth it because of my feelings. You know they say we close our eyes at the most powerful times like when crying or praying and that's cause of how it FEELS not cause of what's in front of you. That's how I feel about my man right now although he's not completely mine. Sometimes we don't let go of the things that make us the saddest cause those are the same things that make us the happiest.

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    And the point of this is?

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  • androidsbiatch
    9 years ago

    When I read this I actually cried a bit, coz that's exactly how I feel about my man. Its normal to love someone to a point where u can't even imagine a day without them. Its normal to love someone so much that it hurts just thinking about the good times you've had(crazy I know). I can relate, my man and I have had struggles in our relationship(my anxiety nd fears about loving him too much accelarate the challenges) I say as long as you are happy nd feel loved just relax and enjoy your relationship. My grn used to say we are visitors in this world so we shouldn't spent most of our time worrying about minor details but enjoy our vacation. It may not make sense what I've just said but in short just enjoy your moments with him, ensure that you both feel good. Love is a beautiful feeling

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    Eh, technically it's normal for people to not leave someone because they're kind of blindsided by 'love'.

    I'm trying to understand the tone of your post.
    "Sometimes we don't let go of the things that make us the saddest cause those are the same things that make us the
    happiest."

    From the sounds of it, you're forcing yourself to stay in hopes that this will be worth it. Correct me if I'm wrong.

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