Is it normal if i believe the ones who "despise" each other the most succeed?

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Stupid title box thing! couldnt write or think of one to fit in but anyways...So what I believe based on what Ive seen in movies, or analyze in person is that the ones who make fun of each other, claim they hate each other, have this "love/hate" relation thing going on succeed in relationships in comparison to the ones who like each other in the beginning. Theres this chemistry I feel out of that hatred vibe and it goes from observing friends or anyone to me personally. Idk but it just seems to me that they have a deeper chemistry than the ones who began to have an eye for each other. Maybe because when they argue or fight they point out their differences and that leads to opposites attract? Its really hard to explain why I believe how two people who arent much fans of each other end up being happier, closer, and more genuinely in love with each other as opposed to two who fell in love at first sight.

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  • 16_teen
    11 years ago

    every relationship is unique & different.
    but if one gets offended by teasing or fights then its not love. one should be comfortable & open with other, love can't be threatened by fights.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    I think what you maybe see is two people who can joke and tease each other without either taking offence. Sometimes other people can't see that it's fun between them and assume they're being nasty to each other. I've had this situation myself when my mom got very angry with my husband, she didn't understand our humor.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    Don't believe what you see in films. People make them up for your entertainment. They're not true.

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