Is it normal i worry i will never find the right guy?

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I worry alot about finding the right guy. my parents had an awful marriage and my dad was a cheater for 15 years and he beat me and he is a pervert obsessed with sex as he has a girlfriend 27 years younger than he is now. I worry that all men are like this and that i will never find the right guy. I see so mny men and i dont find any attractive. i guess i need a guy to be nice, and i feel like the only guys who will ever like me would be really ugly guys like me.. i know its selfish but i wish i could find a guy who liked me for who i am, was kind hearted and loyal. is there such thing as a man like this? Also i worry that i am too ugly for a guy to ever be attracted to me. i was the person who guys in high school asked out as a dare. I'm not as bad as some people, i'm not fat but i hate my face. is it normal to be so insecure? also, i think about sex, alot.

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  • rearle18
    12 years ago

    Papanda1995 (84369) has a point...

    I work in a school where the students either are or were treated in a way similar to yours. What you have, is called very low self esteem generally caused by a person you look up to calling you worthless or making you feel worthless. There is somebody for everybody look:
    http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=235433327345&v=wall

    you need to do activities alone or with friends that make you feel good about yourself, yoga, sports, horseback riding, enter a compeition even if you don't win, you will feel good about yourself... anyway, don't settle it'll ruin you

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Lol another post about my life... except for the dad thing. Normal.

    Oh and 27 years younger? Does that mean your dads girlfriend is near your age?

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  • Pisslan616
    12 years ago

    There are nice guys out there but I think they are often just quieter and more shy than the others.

    I cant know what you have been through but it seems that you are bound to have some hang ups. I'm sure you will find someone for you. Beauty is subjective so there is going to be someone who finds you attractive.

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  • Papanda1995
    12 years ago

    Given the way you grew up, it's very normal. However, if it worries you, you should talk to a psychologist about it and you can get some therapy for this

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I worry about the same thing! No guy is ever going to like some Asian stupid, ugly, peach-fuzz faced girl. All good guys are either taken or gay. Oddly enough, I believe in soulmates. I just don't think he'll ever find me...

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