Is it normal i worry about my gf even though i don't think she will cheat

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Is it normal I worry that my girl will cheat on me even though she hasn't. She has a kid before me. She has cheated before (not on me and the guy cheated first) But she was honest enough to tell me about what happened.
We have been together 3 years and we have a kid.
I love her and I truly do believe she loves me. She does little and big things for me that let me know she is thinking of what I care about.
Her sister told me she has never seen her so happy before.
I am good to her and her son which I consider my son now.
I have been cheated on before and it really really really sucks.
I want to spend the rest of my life together with this girl. I am just afraid of being so invested I guess.
Is it normal to think this way?

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago

    I feel that way about my boyfriend occasionally. We've been together since 2004, but I never really thought about it until we moved in together. I know exactly what you mean about fear of investment. I think that's just what it is. It's hard to put so much trust into someone that you're with because you both choose to be there, unlike parents and siblings who are more predictable to you. When two people love each other, I think they love each other in different ways, which is also difficult for each to accept. I think sometimes people confuse their partner loving them 'differently' with 'not loving'.

    Basically, this is usually just a phase and you pass through it you get to the next level.

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  • GuessWho
    10 years ago

    Given her history, it's understandable to be concerned.
    People can change, but not everybody does.

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  • LostAndBroken
    10 years ago

    It's perfectly normal mate. When you've been cheated on it just feels like absolute betrayal. If you're a sensitive person it'll leave emotional scars & can make it hard to completely trust others. I'd like to be able to say that it will get better over time, but sometimes it just doesn't.

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  • Guwap92
    10 years ago

    What are you doing? Go out and get you some PUSSAYYY!!!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Ewww.

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  • broken_angel
    10 years ago

    its normal. u have feelings for her. love is unbelievable we all think about these things. try not to think about and go on with ur life with her. if she has cheated before but not on u and u guys have been together for 3 years truely believe her. love her and dont let her past or yours mess up ur relationship. think of ur guys family u have together and ur future.

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