Is it normal i wonder how this girl is doing but i know she won't talk to me?

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I met this girl in one of the social volunteer groups I was in. We hit it off pretty well, exchanged numbers, facebook, etc. Soon after she asked me to go to a concert with her. I thought it was a date but when we were leaving she told me she had a boyfriend. We hung out about three or four more times but then she stopped answering my calls and messages.

That was about five years ago. She never updates her facebook or posts any pictures. She has had the same profile picture up all this time (which is not of her). I really wonder how she's doing but I know if I messaged her she'd never respond and would probably unfriend me. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if I randomly bumped into her at the store or something - if she would even recognize or remember me.

I've gone out with maybe a dozen or so other women since then. Maybe more. I don't think I would even be able to put a name to a face for many of them though.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Well, I assumed two things from watching this. She added you to a secondary account and no longer uses that account or something has happened to her, which is why she is not responding and why you haven't seen her again.

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    • CoraCook
      9 years ago

      Maybe she's been happily busy in somebody's kitchen. Didn't think about that, eh?

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago

        Don't even go there. Don't even. She'll end up missing if she goes to a place she is unwelcome!

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        • CoraCook
          9 years ago

          I go there! I AM there!

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          • [Old Memory]
            9 years ago

            -Brings out sharp kitchen knife-

            I told you that you'll go missing. So now I am going to cook you an amazing Mexican meal (pfft, because again, as if women could do the same. Pfft), which is going to make you ditch your entire life and relocate to Mexico to taste their food even more.

            Nobody will even know where you went. Nobody will even know. >:|

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I have seen her like or comment on posts before, but it's very rare.

      Maybe she has another Facebook account with a fake name that she updates with real photos, but I can't understand why anyone would do that.

      I googled her name and it looks like she got a new job. Creepy, maybe. But at least I know that she's not dead.

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  • la_uva_mojada
    9 years ago

    time to move on..

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  • RazzSoH
    9 years ago

    sounds like she is not interested in you anymore, or she is going through domestic violence.

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  • yesnomaybeso
    9 years ago

    I would messageher.
    You've got nothing to lose. Be like, I saw this post on facebook about the band which concert we went to. Reminded me of you. how's life? x

    Although I find it very weird, and I do agree that it might not be her real facebook. Try to see if you can stalk her real one by finding a friend whose account looks real, and looking at the friend's friends to see if she exists on the list?

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