Is it normal i wish i had a sugar daddy?

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Ive been reading about women who go on sugar daddy websites and find older guys who pay for everything, get them cars, apartments and go on great trips...the man knows that you just want him for money and he just wants you for sex. I am very attractive and Im not in a real relationship and Im tired of being broke. Its sounding like a good idea, is it really that bad of a thing?

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thegypsysailor

9 years ago

Do you have any idea what a woman with a sugar daddy is to most people? A high paid whore! Is that what you strive to be? Most of my employers had at least one gal on the side, spending time on the yacht when the boss's family wasn't around. Most were cold, calculating, selfish bitches, that nobody liked, even their sugar daddies. Most were treated worse than the family dog, and they put up with this for "cars, apartments and go on great trips". I've known street whores with more self respect. Great aspirations.
If you're "tired of being broke" how about you get a job and work for your money, like everyone else, honey?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Arent you the one who brags that your wife is 40 years younger? You should talk. Sure she married you for love not financial security or does she have a grandpa fetish?
  btw I do work but most of us aren't swimming in cash, maybe you are so far removed from reality you don't know. If some man wants to pay me for companionship and sex Im OK with that. Whoring is the oldest profession its even done between primates. Its not hurting anybody so who are you to judge?
  
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  - Lonely2
    
    9 years ago
    
    Amen....humans are so hypocritical and judgmental and never can see their own bullshit but have no problems seeing the bullshit in others....
    
    many many female male relationships are based on the male being a good provider and the female being sexy....
    
    so there are many many variations of this theme with many different degrees in between from the harems of the arab sheiks...through poligamy...to conventional marriages ...to sd/ sb...even prostitution follows this overall format....
    
    yes, I hate to be the one to tell all these tender hearts but even your sweetheart had some material considerations in mind when she married you and even you noble men thought about your angel's banging body ....
    
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Harddude21

9 years ago

Lol I will be your sugar daddy, but I can't offer money, only great sex haha

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Avant-Garde

9 years ago

You can! You can buy yourself a Sugar Daddy. You can also buy yourself a Sugar Momma. Give them some alone time and they'll make some Sugar Babies!!!!

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- alextsang08
  
  9 years ago
  
  HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
  
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53739

8 years ago

If I was rich I would definitely spoil you girl.

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GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

9 years ago

No one likes being broke darlin'. Most people who are unhappy without money are still unhappy when they have it.

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- derpyderp
  
  9 years ago
  
  So true.
  It's easy to assume that money will solve all your problems.
  I think in reality the problems you have now may be solved but other problems will be created, especially if you're selling yourself to get that money...
  
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shuggy-chan

9 years ago

Well i need a shuggah mommy

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SarahLJ

9 years ago

Honestly there's nothing wrong with it.. I have had a sugar daddy and they are normally such sweethearts.. You definitely get the best deal out of it.. He gets sex with a hot younger girl, yes.. But you get sex and lots of money and gifts.. It's great! Go for it girl :)

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Ill take your advice over the others cause you have experience.
  
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ilyria

9 years ago

Would you have sex regularly with an old, unattractive, unfit man? Give him sex whenever he wants it so he can give you jewelry and designer bags? Have more self-respect. Don't sell yourself for fancy dinners, jewelry, and cars.

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- Lonely2
  
  9 years ago
  
  Isnt marriage for most women also based to some degree on financial considerations....
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I absolutely could for a while, I think eventually Id get tired of it but to be honest I could do it easily. I would still have a boyfriend on the side if I wanted.
  
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  - noid
    
    9 years ago
    
    Your boyfriend on the side might not want to share you with sugar daddy
    
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green_boogers

9 years ago

Sugar daddies are an aspiration of lazy dependent women. You may identify with Cinderella , but dreams like this just don't come true. Escort service prostitutes to rich people say it's tough and numbing way of life.

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- Lonely2
  
  9 years ago
  
  You dont think marriage and motherhood for the average finacially struggling woman is NOT also a " tough and numbing way of life" .
  
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pixie_dust

9 years ago

I'd had friends in the past that were strippers. That lifestyle maybe sounds fun or whatnot but when you mutually use eachother, it's just bad karma all the way around. You waste the time you could have spent actually being happy finding someone genuine.

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- Lonely2
  
  9 years ago
  
  See you think that these girls are missing out on true love and happiness because they choose a way of life that prevents them from actually finding that...but the reality is that the types of girls that even choose that way of life are usually already emotionally damaged and would have problems sustaining a longterm relationship anyway..
  
  I know, I know, youre going tell me about the girl who finally quit and found prince charming and has two beautiful kids and all that....thats because dysfunction is in degrees....some of these girls are totally f' ed up...some not as much...the ones that are not real f'ed up sometimes do leave and move on to more normal lives
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    9 years ago
    
    Thanks for seeing the other side. I am definitely emotionally damaged. My dad left when I was 10 and I haven't seen him since so maybe I am missing the father figure.
    I also think its possible to grow to love a sugar daddy. I have 2 female friends who were basically mail order brides and they are actually happy with their husbands.
    
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    - Lonely2
      
      9 years ago
      
      Well, heres the thing, you not only are missing the father figure but you also are probably hurt and angry about it...and there may even be a part of you that wants to hurt the father figure for revenge...some of these feelings can be in our subconscious...this may translate into.....I will never allow a man to hurt me again but I will take the stupid SOB for all hes got....of course this is extreme and you may have only some of these feelings...the thing about hurting others though is we also hurt ourselves...so your best bet is to really try to talk your feelings out about your father...this may take time as you have built up walls and defenses against this hurt and pain
      
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ygrowup

9 years ago

It's normal for a few women that want the fun and life that would not have without the money, but many times just a temporary phase. But a few find a balance of love and stability that grows into a long time relationship. So be prepared for whatever comes from your venture! Good luck with your choices

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BonusRound

9 years ago

Yeah...I've had one since my 20's. It's not fun. There's a time when the trips and the money and the fkn cars and stuff get a little cheaper, a little less frequent. Plus, my SD is loyal to me...that's a rare and not to be expected occurrence.
Good luck....but I doubt you'll find what you're looking for, unless you have certain qualities that have nothing to do with looks, babe.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Can you tell me what they are? Cunning? Ability to fake emotions? Kinky sex...?
  
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Numbertwo

9 years ago

A lot of Americans are too lazy to work. Instead of the government giving the handout you can let the sugar daddy give you the handout

Or u could have some self respect

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I have a job. I don't respect welfare bums because other taxpayers are paying for them unwillingly, at least a sugar daddy knows the deal and is willing.
  
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ThisIsImpossible

9 years ago

Suck everything you can out of those white collar fucks! Marry him and divorce him for half the estate too! Hahahaha!

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