Is it normal i wish i didn't have a family?

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Everything would be much easier if I didn't have a family. I mean, currently not having a family would suck, but if my family just disappeared once I finished university and found a job and a place to live, I really wouldn't mind it.

My family is really small and divided. All of our relatives are angry at each other, as well as us, and no-one cares about anyone. I'm very emotionally detached from my family too. I'm also the only child in the family, I don't even have any cousins. This mean that when my mum gets old, I'll be the only one to take care of her, which I really don't want to do. I mean, I'm thankful that she took care of me (and still does), but I really couldn't take care of her in return because it would stress the shit out of me, even thinking about it does. But I've still got some empathy left, so I'd kind of be forced to take care of her, because otherwise I'd feel really bad.

So either way, it will suck. If I had a sibling who could deal with that, it would be perfect, but I don't. It would be much easier if she and everyone else in my family disappeared once I become fully independent, so there wouldn't be anyone stressing me out and I'd only have my own struggles to deal with.

So, how big of a piece of shit am I for thinking this?

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  • vaginahouse
    9 years ago

    whats your mom or sister look like? big titties? fat ass? because all take them how about your dad or brothers are they hard works that can make me some money because ill take them off your hands

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    So your mum took care of you for how many years and now you'd just as soon see her fade into nonexistence? Wow, you are just the kind of person I want to emulate. NOT!

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    • seekelp
      9 years ago

      Hey there, Borat.

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        I don't get the reference.

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        • seekelp
          9 years ago

          For some reason I can only find a version that some guy animated, but the audio is the same.
          https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eCmk_hY5smY

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  • flightlesskiwi
    9 years ago

    Your description of your relatives as being angry at each other, as well as at your family sounds a lot like my relatives. Even though all my relatives pretend they like each other and my family none of them really do. Therefore, like you, I wouldn't mind if they disappeared. So, I think that this part of your post sounds pretty normal. I'm not sure about the rest of your post, though, since you don't really write much about your relationship with your parents. Still, I don't think it's normal you want them to disappear as well.

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