Is it normal i went to a party and cuddled my boyfriend's best friend?

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I went to a party with my boyfriend the other day. I spent almost the whole party cuddling, hugging and holding hands with my boyfriend's best friend, who is also one of my best friends. My boyfriend was completely fine with it because he trusts us both. He doesn't know that I have a crush on the guy I was cuddling with, and have done for years. But I would never do anything sexual with him because I am loyal to my boyfriend. Do you think is was okay that I did that? Is it normal that my boyfriend was okay with this?

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    If you're having "feelings" you shouldn't but doing it, and you know this...

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  • TareBear20
    9 years ago

    Loyal? Cuddling a man that is not yours is pretty unfaithful despite him being there or not. Having guy friends while in a relationship is ok, but perhaps you need to come to terms with the simple fact that this is unfair to your boyfriend. He has the right to know of your unspoken feelings, especially since you cuddle, hug and hold the other guys hand. I feel bad for you boyfriend. Mine told me that his ex sucked on another guys finger in front of him, because the guy said it tasted like Ganja. She was all for it, too. Poor bitch still wants him back years later, but he would never leave me for that, but he'd smash it if we ever broke up, Inbetween trying to get me back of course. Most guys will want to settle down with a women with morals and respect for him and herself. Either stop what's happening, or break up with him. I don't hug most of my male friends, by the way. They get daps (fist bump) and that's it. A short, not so tight hug is acceptable with my closer guy friends, but it'd never turn into anything more.

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  • eastbeast
    9 years ago

    I feel a three-way coming on.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    9 years ago

    Why are you with your boyfriend if you like someone else enough to want to cuddle him all night?

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  • Freedom_
    9 years ago

    Doesn't sound loyal to me...

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    That's fucked up, in my eyes what you're doing is worse than having a casual hookup while being in a relationship. If you like someone else don't be with your bf

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    9 years ago

    Stop leading the poor boy on.

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    • modernism
      9 years ago

      I don't think he's exactly the "poor boy" here. What he's doing is wrong too.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Sounds slutty to me.

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  • Mersaphe
    9 years ago

    if your boyfriend approves of it then it sounds normal. maybe he becomes aroused by the thought of you having feelings for his friend.

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  • lonewolfspirit13
    9 years ago

    I don't see anything wrong with cuddling. I cuddle with my friends all the time.

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  • sandraasiilva
    9 years ago

    If you have feelings for this friend, you should avoid developing it, or you will only make things worse for yourself and for all of you. You have to stop now. I mean, unless you leave your boyfriend...
    Think about what you want and feel, and be careful to not destroy a relationship and a friendship because of a possible whim.
    If you are confused, you should be honest with your boyfriend and tell him.

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