Is it normal i was a bit of a sadist/masochist even when i was little?

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When I was young I use to watch batman. I use to love the joker and Harley Quinn. I always thought there relationship was cute and romantic. I also loved the riddler but that's for a completely different reason.

I was very sadistic when I was little as well. I use to laugh at the worst things. Looking back kind of wondering how I thought something so messed up was funny but I did. When I hit puberty I became a bit of a sadist/masochist sexually.

However I always felt that way minus the sexual part. Is it normal I was the same as a little kid even before I hit puberty? When I was 6 I was contemplating how I would turn out sexually. I kind of always planned thing 5 years ahead. I believed I would be one of those people when I did hit puberty but I knew this at age 6. Is that normal?

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    Similar to myself. I had masochistic and sadistic tendencies as a child and I still do as an adult. As a kid I also has some very kinky and bizarre fantasies that were in this vein. The thing is is that I did not realise that I was a switch and nor did I know about the BDSM community until I was 16. I'm not entirely sure on the normality of this, especially since many have reported that they found out they had S/M tendencies during puberty.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      If people tend to discover it during puberty why is it considered sign of mental illness in teens?

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      • Avant-Garde
        10 years ago

        I have no idea. Though, I've noticed that the more close-minded parts of society have also been quick to judge and demonize the community. You'd think that by now such idiotic beliefs would have been done away with.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          Yes, but they are not. Especially when its in younger groups. I don't see why people are so judgmental about such things. I mean unless its something illegal like rape or molestation what people like sexually is there business.

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