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I sometimes feel this desire to have one night of crazy sex with someone else, but at the sametime it sickens me to think what it would mean and do if i were to cheat. Anyone else ever feel this way?
Don't cheat. Better to fantasize while you masturbate. But don't fantasize while having sex with your partner.
It's better to talk to ur SO about it. Before u do it. Maybe she'll give u a get outta jail free card or wanna join in.
Cheating is absolutely not worth it. The trouble and the guilt overwhelm any fun you would have in a one night-stand. On top of it you break someone's heart for a couple hours of pleasure. But I think the fantasy you have are normal, are you getting bored perhaps ?
The interesting thing about cheating is that if you actually love your partner, your 'one night of crazy sex' will be a huge let down and probably no fun at all, because guilt will ruin it.
Even if it doesn't happen that way, it will ruin your relationship, because your guilt will force you to confess or change you in such a way that your gf will notice. Your relationship will never be the same and all for what, a bit of strange? Stupid, Stupid, Stupid, Stupid, Stupid.