Is it normal i want to know what it's like to be a wife?

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I lived with three men without ever marrying any of them. I only had kids with the second one and we never got married either just because we were already heading to spliting up when our first son was born. We tried for 2 years, until our other son came, and it still didn't work out between us. I just wonder sometimes what it's like to be a real wife, married and stuff, like legally. Can anyone tell me if it feels different than just living with a SO? Is divorce that bad in comparisson? I've went through hell in the last 2 separations, specially with the father of my sons. I wonder if it would of been even worse if we had really got married.

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Based on 19 votes (15 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Marriage is the core institution of the society. A dysfunctional society will give up on it more and more. The fact that people don't find it worthy anymore and can't trust each other means that the society is slowly collapsing. Soon enough it will give up on most norms and degenerate to the fullest, failing to reproduce, to connect and to network effectively. While this happens, other nations take over, replacing the autochtonous population. These will normally be stronger and more capable of exercising their functions, even though they're almost always less intelligent and evolved. Good luck to us all in this hell.

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    • factcheck
      5 years ago

      I wish I could post that “what white nonsense is this?” GIF here.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        5 years ago

        https://tenor.com/view/titus-whitepeople-gif-9052827

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        Nigga can't read so blames it on skin color. How does this feel? Do you like it? Because that's how you talk about whites.

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        • SwickDinging
          5 years ago

          DDaviDD is dropping n bombs and truth bombs all in one tiny comment haha

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          • [Old Memory]
            5 years ago

            Lol

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  • SwickDinging
    5 years ago

    It feels very different. You don't expect it to, and you say to yourself "we've lived together for years, nothing will change" but it does change.

    It's because you suddenly become actual family. You go from being a live in partner to actually having a responsibility to that person which is set in stone. It makes you view the relationship very differently. If you've married the right person this responsibility is welcome and changes the relationship for the better, but if you married the wrong person it makes everything worse.

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  • Iszzy123
    5 years ago

    Play some kinda wife simulator

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Divorce is Hell!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      If you have what was it like to be a real wife??

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        It was alright with my first ex-husband before he cheated on me with this cow from his work.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          Goddamm! But before that what was it like? Did you feel like a "WIFE"? What about the next one? what happened? How many ex-husbands you have?

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          • [Old Memory]
            5 years ago

            Let me put it shortly for you. She had only assholes in her life and now she is obsessed with cats because of that and has some sort of "hating men" inclinations. The answer you're looking for is not here.

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            • RoseIsabella
              5 years ago

              I'm thinking about blocking you.

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            • [Old Memory]
              5 years ago

              Fuckin' hate it when people run 'round assumin' shit!

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          • RoseIsabella
            5 years ago

            I only have two ex-husbands. I guess I felt like a wife with my first ex-husband, and I used his last name socially. With the second one I never felt anything, it was a massive mistake from which I'm glad I got away. I never changed my last name either time. I don't think I will ever change my last name for anyone ever.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              5 years ago

              Using his last name socially? How does that go and why did you do it? And how? I always kept my own name because we never married so I cant even relate to that to be honest. I only felt like a real wife with my second one because we were parents.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Have you been legally married???

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        Yes, I have been legally married twice in my lifetime, and I'm in no hurry to repeat all of that.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          I never married just lived with all 3 of them, so I don1t know what it really feels like for real. I felt married to them during the time but I never really was. I want to know if it's different.

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          • RoseIsabella
            5 years ago

            I don't know if it's especially different. The thing that makes the difference is whether or not the relationship is going well, and whether or not there is any real love or compatibility in the relationship. I felt more married to my most recent ex with whom I only cohabitated than I ever felt with my second ex-husband. My second ex-husband had a drinking problem, and I refuse to lift a finger for him, or someone like him, because I have better things to do with my time. I don't care to be a helpmate to some pathetic loser from a shitty family. Fuck that noise!

            I would only want to date, and marry someone who has his shit together, which means that I gotta get myself together, because I'm not really relationship material right now. It's better to be alone than with the wrong person. I could say that a thousand times, and it would never get old to me.

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  • Meowypowers
    5 years ago

    If you've already struggled to maintain healthy relationships with several men you've already lived with and procreated with, why even consider complcating things with marriage?

    You don't go out and buy a motorcycle if you can't even ride a bicycle now do you?

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  • Vvaas
    5 years ago

    don't get married it's a scam and you'll waste money

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago

      Marriage sounds like a trap

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    • paracetamol
      5 years ago

      I will marry you reeeeeee

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      • Vvaas
        5 years ago

        <3

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