Is it normal i want to dump for boyfriend, so i can sleep around?

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I am 23 year old female, and feel like I'm in my sexual prime, and want to experience sex with other men.

I currently have a boyfriend, which I'm thinking of dumping, so I can explore my sexuality. I never cheated on him, but feel like I need to dump him to be true to myself and be somewhat of a slut (for lack of a better term) for awhile.

I fantasize about having one-night stands with no commitment.

Should I dump my BF so I can have some one night stands?

Yes, you should dump your BF 12
Yes, having one night stands is fun 1
Yes, but being a slut is ok too 8
No, keep your BF and just cheat on him. 7
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  • edwininthematrix
    6 years ago | pl

    being in a relationship isn't about feeling trapped, it's about wanting to be with someone because you love them and want to be committed to them. if you can't give your heart to your boyfriend then you should dump him for your sake and for his too.

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    • nikkiclaire
      6 years ago

      Exactly. I don't understand people staying in a relationship just for the sake of it. It's selfish.

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  • paramore93
    6 years ago

    If you're not happy, dump him.
    Simple as.

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  • MisterPapaya
    6 years ago

    That depends if you have actual feelings for him. You could always offer up the idea of an open relationship and you both could sleep around while still being together.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      He won't like me sleeping around with other guys, so I need to either dump him or just cheat on him.

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      • [Old Memory]
        6 years ago

        Dump him. Fuck as many guys (or girls) as you can as often as you can. Many of us love sluts, the nastier the better.

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        • bob7
          6 years ago

          ew

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          • [Old Memory]
            6 years ago

            Sluts are the best!

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        • redrainbow22
          6 years ago

          You are nasty and shouldnt be giving advice

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      • nikkiclaire
        6 years ago

        Cheating is just stupid.there is zero point to it. Tell him you need slut around for a bit.

        I agree with whoever said it sounds like you already have been.

        Cheating is just mean.

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        • redrainbow22
          6 years ago

          Very mean, I have no sympathy for cheaters who get a punishment after they cheat

          It's so wrong, heartless and cold

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  • deepdrowning
    6 years ago

    Heh, have you ever even read a Grimm's Fairy Tale?

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    Your life and your choice, but cheating would be disrespectful to him and yourself, since you'd be lying to him and you know decent people don't lie to people they supposedly care about.

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  • amg1028
    6 years ago

    Breaking up with him is the best option for you and him. CHEATING IS NEVER OKAY OR ACCEPTABLE. Just know that when its over with him, its over and you probably will never get a chance with him again.

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  • McBean
    6 years ago

    Option 5 is to tell your boyfriend you want to see him slut around a bit. Then, you will both be happy.

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  • Tiffany2016
    6 years ago

    I vote for all of the options. Either of them would work.

    Personally, I don't believe you haven't cheated on your boyfriend based on the question, and you are asking us to validate your choices.

    So based on that, being a slut is a valid option, although you might want to "take a break" from your relationship, so you have that to "fall back on", if this doesn't work out for you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    At just 23, you have a lot of sex ahead of you, but don't limit yourself to just men. Fuck anyone that can give you pleasure and try group sex and bukkake. If you truly are a slut, then you'll love it. Enjoy your pussy and use it for your pleasure!

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  • sararyan7242
    6 years ago

    Sure, That's a great plan.

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    • nikkiclaire
      6 years ago

      She should break up with him and just screw and blow random guys on the beach for jello shots.

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  • EnglishLad
    6 years ago

    To be honest, if you tell him you want to dump him so you can sleep with multiple other men, he'll probably dump you first.

    And you'll deserve it.

    That is the most pathetic reason to dump someone ever. He sounds far too good for you.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    congratulations, your becoming a human . we are not monogamous creatures and you realize it. BTW i will remind you that if you never marry this is never a problem. your pussy was never his property. that was your mistake in the first place,

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      I like that, and I can give my pussy to whoever I want.

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  • bob7
    6 years ago

    this is the dumbest post i have seen in a while

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Your post is the dumbest post... lard ass.. Go jerk off to your mother.

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      • bob7
        6 years ago

        sit down , slut

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        • nikkiclaire
          6 years ago

          😂

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  • sararyan7242
    6 years ago

    You should break up with him, and then fuck until you get it out of your system. Once you realize being a slut is not as fun as you think it is, perhaps you can get your boyfriend back.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    6 years ago

    Sheesh, I've not cheated yet, I was just thinking about it..
    Now I may go on spring break and cheat on him, just because you people don't understand...

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    6 years ago

    I've not cheated yet, just thinking about cheating on spring break.

    I could break up with him the day before spring break, go down to Florida, be a total slut, and by the time I get back, he'll be begging me take him back.

    Is that a better idea?
    That way, I never actually cheated on him.

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    • Jimbo24
      6 years ago

      You want to do it the honest way? Tell him you're fucking other people.

      Anything other than this, and you'll have betrayed him. Because you'll have "broken up with him" under false pretenses. He'll think there's something wrong with him, that he messed up as your boyfriend, that's why you're breaking. All the while him feeling bad, you'll add insult to injury by slutting out miles away from him.

      This kind of premeditated cheating is at least as bad as regular cheating. That's what makes the difference between a first-degree and second-degree murder.

      You don't deserve him. But it's also partly his fault for being so trusting in a world full of cheats and unscrupulous people.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    Being a slut is fun for a while and the fact that you'd consider breaking up with your boyfriend to be one, suggests you don't love him. You may as well break up.

    There is nothing wrong with random casual sex and being used like a fuck toy, it's something most people should experience imho.

    Just be careful. You need to have a firm grasp on reality or you might start to believe your are worthless.

    Also once you have it out of your system and want to settle down, you might still miss it. I really miss blowjobs and stuff and having guys cum all over me. At the same time I wouldn't trade what I have now for anything.

    It' a weird feeling. Regardless its totally up to you and always remember, you control your body.

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    • Boojum
      6 years ago

      Very sensible advice.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    6 years ago

    I think I have the perfect solution. I can cheat on him on spring break, and then if I like it, I can break up with him. If I don't, then he'll never know.

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    • redrainbow22
      6 years ago

      DONT CHEAT ON HIM

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    • redrainbow22
      6 years ago

      Cheating is not normal.

      You are betraying his trust for your own stupid SELFISH reasons!

      WHERE IS YOUR DECENCY?!?!

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    • nikkiclaire
      6 years ago

      Being a slut is one thing. Being a stupid bitch is another.

      Hopefully he already has plans to fuck other girls while you are out of town. Enjoy 😊😊😊

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    • Tiffany2016
      6 years ago

      If you think you can get away with that, then that is an option, but I wouldn't continue to cheat after you get back or he might find out.

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      • redrainbow22
        6 years ago

        If she cheats, I hope he breaks her face in

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        • nikkiclaire
          6 years ago

          I'm secretly hoping her boyfriend cheats on her while she is at spring break.

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          • redrainbow22
            6 years ago

            No need for that. Then he'll be in the wrong too

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  • CozmoWank
    6 years ago

    When were you first sexually abused?

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    6 years ago

    My boyfriend is too stupid to think I would cheat on him on spring break. I got this!

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